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jm1
July 19th '06, 07:27 AM
ok, i've posted about this before but here's an update. this guy likes me, when we first met i ignored him although he made it very obvious, i was at a friends house weeks later and was on her comp. i messaged someone on her msn, turns out it's the same guy. neither of us knew we had a mutual friend. i chatted with him, gave him my id, etc. he's super nice although i ignored him.
here's what i'd like explained: prior to when i messaged him on her screen name he spoke to her occasionally when they first met, then not at all. after i messaged him it didn't change too much but a few nights later the two of them were chattting (she im him and was a bit drunk). she was teasing him about his " game" (slang for ability to pick up) and told him that he has none. he disagreed, she told him to prove it and they chatted for an hour and a half about " game" with him telling her about all the girls he's managed to sleep with. when she asked him about his " game" at the event we had met at he said he found this other girl attractive but didn't remember her name ( i know for a fact he never spoke to her) and also said that he was busy trying to get with this girl from his school (also a lie). a short while into their convo she told him again that at this event she still believes he had no game and he said " next year i won't be stupid enough to go after a single girl" (me). after this conversation he would im her as soon as she would sign on, the next day he even brought up the game topic again and they joked about his lack of game again ( this time he gave lots of compliments about me indirectly hoping she would pass them on). later that day he im me and when i asked what he did last nigth he never told me he stayed home and chatted with my friend. he said that his friends never called so he spent all night next door and that the last night was so bad. what's going on? why would he make up all that stuff then admit he only went after one girl (me)? and why did he start iming my friend all the time after that convo? also, doesn't he think my friend would tell me she spoke to him last night?

orlando lover
July 21st '06, 07:25 AM
I think he might b playin u for a fool, but obviously ur not. I dont really know what else to say other than maybe he did go over to his neighbors and then talk to ur friend and forgot or didnt think it was important at the time. Another thing could b that ur friend was liein to make u feel good, but i dont know.

jm1
July 21st '06, 08:13 PM
yeah, i really don't know what to think. i know that when we were together for the first time ( at the same place, not dating) he was after me and only me. at the end when the event was over he was walking by me and he looked at me and looked very sad/upset (like i said, he made it obvious that he liked me, and i ignored him the whole time). he thought i didn't notice this.

despite the fact that i was horrible to him during this event, when our mutual friend mentioned me once during one of their first conversations (when they had met, she had no idea that he liked me, or had any interaction with me) she said, after he said that he likes to party, that he friend of hers also likes to (me). his response was " haha, that's always good to hear" then " how's school?" he was clearly changing the subject.

when i first messaged him (on her account) he was very nice, asked for my screen name, had great manners, etc. he said we would chat again soon, and he messaged me a day later. once again, same thing. despite the fact that i was horrible to him he was super nice during our conversation. that same night, him and my friend have this game conversation and he makes up all this crap, then admits he only went after one girl (me). the next day he messages her again and this time they keep joking about " game" and he gives me lots of compliments. later that same day he messages me and doesn't say he spoke to my friend.

orlando lover
July 28th '06, 03:54 AM
Sorry,:( i dont know what 2 say.