agh help, when is it time to end it?

[abracadabra]

i'v been going out with mi bf for 1 yr and a bit and i don't know whether or not to break up with him..like theres nothing bad but i just feel like everytime i go out without him i wish i didnt have a bf? any advice? ahh i don't know what 2 do!:(

[KathyN]

How do you feel about him?

[Porcelain]

Do you wish you didn't have a boyfriend, or do you wish -HE- wasn't your boyfriend?

If you just don't want a boyfriend at the minute, then it might just be that you need some time to be yourself, and grow up a bit. You could tell him you want to cool it off for a while, but that you still love him (if you do of course) and that you're not breaking up with him, you just need some space.

If you just don't like the fact the HE is your boyfriend, then you need to break up with him. It's not fair to lead him along, keeping him there if you don't want him to be there. You'll only end up making him feel like a cunt.

Lastly, maybe it's just been so long that your relationship lacks that sparkle now. You need to talk to him whatever the situation is, and sort things. You might have a good thing with him, and it might be worth working for. No-one ever said relationships are easy!

Do whatever feels right for you. :)