Has this happened to anyone else?

[Mamfy]

Have you been in a relationship, past about 6 months, where you argue alot? Like, every day you argue, over stupid petty little things?

[KiKiDee]

No, but one of my friends used to argue with hers all the time over stupid things! she used to get down about it and cry in the middle of lesson etc. there fine now, maybe was just a rough patch

[NATAL!E]

They say there's a fine line between love and hate.

Sometimes in relationships, you're so attached to eachother, but there's nothing there anymore, only arguments and unhappiness when you really think about it.

Being with someone means you're lost with them, want to spend your time with them and they make you happy. Arguing is the opposite. It's usually when a lot of it's been lost.

[Shane]

In my longest relationship (2 years) I don't think we argued once.
I know people do argue though and as long as it's only about petty things then it's no so bad, that's just how some people are.

[WarHeart]

How fast do you settle the argument? Me and my girlfriend rarely argue, when we do we settle it asap. Nothing wrong with it, sometimes it brings you closer, and shows your needs

[Mamfy]

It gets settled pretty quick. But I don't understand, because I feel he is my soul mate. We have SO much in common, and I mean SO much. He shares the same interests and likes and dislikes as me and he's two yers older. He gets on so well with his family and he's always doing so much for me and vice versa. I'm just a really picky person, and I pick on the little things that happen and I think that's why we argue, because I tell him and he gets defenceless and annoyed because I can't let things go like he does.

Does it have anything to do with us both being virgos? :S Lol

[WarHeart]

Talk to him, just be open to him about how you're picky with things. Or maybe you could let those picky things slide?

[PrincessAlice]

me and wayne argue sometimes not everyday that would ruin my time with him :) i like spending time with him :) i hate it when me or him have to go home

[Mamfy]

I'm gonna try and be less picky. It's just so hard. It's brought us to the edge of splitting up, it's so horrible.

[Luke]

Not everyday, no but i'm sure you can imagine, i'm not the easiest person to get along with :)

[NATAL!E]

True Luke. :P

And me and Tom hardly ever argue. It only happened a couple of times when I wasn't feeling right, and I was feeling like absolute shite, and he just made his worse. As this girl fancied him, and she was all over him all the time, but he didn't see anything wrong with it, and it upset me. And we also argued about something which happened before we went out, lol.

But it was all over about 2 days, so it was reyt.

And mamfy, the perfect one for you doesn't have to be like a replica of yourself. They do say opposites attract, and that's true sometimes.

It sounds awful, but don't just hang on to him and the relationship, because you're sure he's the one for you, if things have turned sour. You should have to change yourself for him to stop arguments and such either. He should be able to accept you for who you are.

[Mamfy]

Yes but I agree I have been a total bitch recently and I want to make it up to him. Is this right?

I'm so sorry for what I did to him. I know I've hurt him so I'm trying to change that,.

[CraigYohn!]

Of course thats right silly :P you're doing something to try an change things, aslong as you're doing that, it should and would better the relationship.

Most people dont even bother, they go "its too late" when its actually never too late until you're dead.
If you have feelings for him an you know hes got them for you, stick to your guns an make it up to him, go out somewhere where its just the two of you :)

[Mamfy]

I really do have feelings for him. I hate leaving him so much, I just want to be with him all the time. I have never felt this with anyone, and 9 months of our relationship proves that. I have known him for nearly 4 years and 9 months of that has been us two together.