Going further

[lol92]

me and my girlfriend have been saying we want to go futher for a while now, do you hink it is right and is it as fun as people make it out to be?

Sorry if this is the wrong section, lol.

[Brianna.]

If you two feel ready for it, then go for it. Make sure you're responsable, though.


....and it is quite fun.

[lol92]

problem is, i do want to do it, but sometimes i get a bit nervous because i haven't done that much before, but i want to, what happened to people when they might have been in this situation?

[Brianna.]

Just go with your instincts. No one knows what they're doing the first time. You learn as you go.

[lol92]

thanks brianna.

[Luke]

Your name is lol92?

Are you Evans in disguise?

[Chris]

problem is, i do want to do it, but sometimes i get a bit nervous because i haven't done that much before

Have a drink or something alcoholoic (not too much mind) this will remove the nervousness, i guarantee it.

But if you both really want to do it, there shouldn't be anything stopping you. Just go for it :)

[~Wayne~]

If your thinking as far as sex thats a bit much for a 14 year old...

[iaxa]

lol... people in yr 8 here have sex. yr 7 for uk people ( me thinks)

if ya decide to do it cover your tool.

[lol92]

not sex, lol! fcuk4forest, no im not evans, lol.

[Chris]

not sex, lol! fcuk4forest, no im not evans, lol.

Well, what do you mean by 'further' then?

Also, ignore my alcohol comment, thats not the best way to go.

[lol92]

guess...lol

[taosc]

Fairly simple in my opinion. You obviously care for your gf or you wouldnt be asking advice about it, just go for it and be careful is all i can say, youll always be nervous with your first few or a new partner, just relax and enjoy it, and dont worry about it, its completely normal to be wondering if your giving your partner pleasure or not. One way around this is experiment with techniques and speed and ask which and what she likes. GOOD LUCK ;)