I'm so sad!

[Kezabeza]

Me and my boyfriend broke up last night :(
I was with him just over 2 months and I was REALLY happy! and he was too!
But over the last week or so... He's been really different with me and I could tell there was something wrong. and me being me... was thinkin tht he was cheating on me or sumthing stupid but it all turns out tht he thinks we will end up splitting up wen i go t college in 5 weeks.

I'm going to a dance college in blackpool 3 days a week and thn come home for the better part of the week. but ben seems to think tht we I go we'll end up breakin up becos i wont see him as much.

We were both so upset and I still am... I'v spoke to him as if everythns normal this morning and he's been re-thinking his decision. He still doesn't kno whether hes done the right thing by ending it.

I so just want to be with him cs there was so many things tht we were looking forward to doing and now I kno we wont have the chance to do them now.

I'm going thru t his house tnight to talk to him but i don't kno what to say to him?
I'm sooooo confused!

[Sponge'K'nob]

:( its not nice to break up.
right...you're going to blackpool 3 days a week? ....couldn't he make do with 4 days a week?
at least to trial it for a few weeks to see how it goes...the time apart might bring you closer together?
how old is your "ex"?
just talk to him about a trial of the time apart etc.
maybe he just thinks you will meet someone else in those 3 days? and doesnt wanna suffer the pain, i dunno you just need to ask him.
good luck anyway

[Mamfy]

Just tell him that sometimes you both need to do your seperate things and experience new things but it's not going to change anything between you two. A slong as you both love each other and are devoted and are willing to give up 3 days to study and then have 4 days together then everything should be fine.

Good luck tonight.

[Kezabeza]

I messed everything up tho last night in town.
His best friend told me tht he met a girl last week while we wa still together and we had a massive row. then he goes and tells me iv got the wrong end of the stick so we argued for nothin and now we cant even be friends. i rung him this morning cs i wanted t see him but he just threw it back in my face (which i cant really blame him for) but things just seem too suspicious about last week with that girl. He's 17 but is really young in the head so i think it maybe that that is teling him we wont b togehter.

The thing is he told me he never cheats and treats girls good... but hes done the total opposite to me and i tried my best with him i did everythn for him! I don't kno what i did wrong to him???????:(

It's really messing my head up too.... Cs i ended up kissing my ex before ben last night .... but i think i was just on the rebound and now iv given him ideas and im soooooo confused!!

[Guest]

I messed everything up tho last night in town.
His best friend told me tht he met a girl last week while we wa still together and we had a massive row. then he goes and tells me iv got the wrong end of the stick so we argued for nothin and now we cant even be friends. i rung him this morning cs i wanted t see him but he just threw it back in my face (which i cant really blame him for) but things just seem too suspicious about last week with that girl. He's 17 but is really young in the head so i think it maybe that that is teling him we wont b togehter.

The thing is he told me he never cheats and treats girls good... but hes done the total opposite to me and i tried my best with him i did everythn for him! I don't kno what i did wrong to him???????:(

It's really messing my head up too.... Cs i ended up kissing my ex before ben last night .... but i think i was just on the rebound and now iv given him ideas and im soooooo confused!!

Maybe you're sad because you involve yourself with guys, in manners such as kissing, before you know what type of person they are, and even just knowing more about them in general. To me it's funner to be with someone that I know well (definitely worth the wait)!

[Sponge'K'nob]

do you think that he really did meet that girl last week?
you know what 17 year olds are like....
do you feel anything for the ex you kissed?

[Kezabeza]

Yes... I was still in love with my ex before i met Ben... Things rly are confusin ha!
I want to belive Ben with him tellin me he didnt meet her but everythn just seems too weird... Why else would his best friend tell me tht??

[Sponge'K'nob]

maybe his best friend wanted to stir it? or make you feel paranoid?
is 'Bens' best friend trustworthy?
and are you still in love with your ex?

[Kezabeza]

Yer maybe... but i kno bens best friend was telin his the other day to finish it with me and have some fun with his mates... but thts cs all his mates were single and he was the only one in a relationship.

Iv got lots of feelings for my ex yes... and it felt ryt wen i kissed him last night.
And he told me it felt ryt for him too and he still cares for me.

[Sponge'K'nob]

well if you really think ben wants to have fun then leave it with him.
sounds like you and your ex still have feelings for eachother so why not get back with him?

[Kezabeza]

Cs things were rly bad wen me and him broke up....
His rents are going away this week and I'm going round to his one day to pick up the stuff iv still got at his house frm wen we were together.

The thing thats gettin me really mad is... i kno ben isnt bothered tht we've broke up even tho he told me he loved me and wud do anythn for me.... If he really loved me surely he would give it ago for a few weeks when i get to college insted of just ending it and leavin us both to wonder whether it would work or not....

[Sponge'K'nob]

if he loves ya then maybe he thinks hes doing the right thing by letting you go if he thinks he might cheat? i no girls dont want it that way, but i dunno how boys see it.
does he really wanna settle down in a relationship at his age or is he just out for a laugh?
both guys and girls want a laugh as equally as commitment at this age so its wierd what happens.
maybe it would have been better for him to wait a few weeks, but i dunno.
see how it goes when you go over to his?

[fletch]

kerry get rid of ben complete nob hed had fun shoppin i got exactly what i wanted n i got ur cowboy hat for town on wednesday yeeeehaaa!!!!

fletch

[KiKiDee]

:agree: y waste all this on a 17 yr old who obviously wants to go round avin abit of fun, wen u got ur ex who still likes you n wud treat u right