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Guest
August 22nd '06, 06:55 PM
So, about two years ago i flew up to Georgia to meet with some friends and i met the most amazing guy, who is now my boyfriend. I only stayed in Georgia for about two weeks than i went back to Florida and we both kep in contact with each other. We would talk online, phone..etc and at this time we weren't together yet. We got so close with jsut talking long-distance that we got together about 6 months in to talking to each other and ive been with him since. Over the past year and a half i have yet to see him in person because about 7 months ago he told me he had HIV.. and in maybe 2 or 3 years he could die. The reasons for me not seeing him is because he said that when i do see him and stay with him in person that hes scared ill fall more in lvoe with him than i already am and that it will be so much harder for me to lose him when he passes away..so, he told me he needs time to think about me coming to see him and has plans for next summer and my questions is.. is it better to make the best of sosmething before it goes away or should you not maek the best of it so its easier to lose it. What do i do? is it wrong for him to make me wait?

Confusing huh..

KathyN
August 24th '06, 04:46 PM
Talk to him and say that you allready love him, and you love him for the person he is!

The question about what is the best.... Everyone deels what is better for him\her.

Fairy
August 24th '06, 05:43 PM
If you love him you'll visit him and be there for him when things get bad.:(

saraharms1
August 24th '06, 10:03 PM
tell him you do love him and you want to be there by his side....