Need A Little Help.

[I-like-BRICE.]

Alright, there is going to be very few times where I post a new thread. I like to help people more than tell my problems. Anyway, here I go.

I have a crush on this guy and he graduated last year, sadly. He's a couple years older than me and he knows that I like him. He doesn't mind either, he's never talked to me about it before. He pretends to not pay any attention to me when I'm around.

Well, he has a girlfriend and let's just say they're relationship isn't the best, but I don't want to get into that at all. His girlfriend knows I like him and she hates me for it and she gets mad at him for it, which I don't think is fair at all, it's not his fault. Well, there's a football game this Friday and I know he'll be there, and I want to talk to him...something I've never had the courage to do before.

What exactly should I say? I feel bad for how is treated by his girlfriend and I feel like it's my fault although it's really not, I can't help my feelings for him. I really don't want to talk about that with him because I know he'll get annoyed of that. He doesn't want to hear things about his girlfriend constantly. He gets enough of her anyway.

I just need some help, what do I say to him? How do I start up a conversation? I guess I'm not as good at this as I seem. If anyone could help, that would be great. :)

[Alittlelonely]

well as a guy i can say that a good way to start a conversation is with either some kind of compliment or a joke. So tell him like, "oo you really pounded that guy" or something more creative. After that just keep everything gradual and then slowly dip into whatever you want to talk about. Just try not to make it awkward for him, make sure that the speaking is more or less equally divided between you and him. Just becareful though, don't try to set yourself up too high or else you might feel crushed afterwards.