Betrayel

[BleedBlack]

What is the worse kind of betrayel/cheating?

physical.. when the guy/girl kisses or whatever else with another person?
OR
emotional...when the guy/girl has feelings for another person?


I think emotional is worse cos physical can be unintetional, like when someone is drunk or something.. but emotional cant be accidental & their feelings r involved..& i cant handle that.

[Drunk_druid]

physical, if they have feelings then they cant help it but if they actually kiss them or watever then theyre betraying you. *edit* although i agree on the drunk or watever but in that case a good person might forgive them if they were good friends

[BleedBlack]

^^^you say that they cant help there feelings..you sort of can though cos when you are in a relationship you shouldn't be worried about other chicks/guys or whatever so you shouldn't be getting those feelings in the first place.

[Mamfy]

I think emotionally is worse, because I'd hate to be in a relationship with someone who feels something for someone else. It's not as bad when they kiss them because it might be a one-night-stand, but when they feel they like them then you cant change their mind.

Saying allt his makes me sound like I let people walk all over me! I don't lol!

[~sexy_biatch~]

im not sure...im still debating, thats a good question

[Bob!]

I dont think being pissed is a good excuse for doin summat like that.

Sure if ya randy or whatever that doesent help either but still, ya should be able to control yaself whether uve had beer or no.

[Louise]

Thats a good question, I thought I had an answer to it but I dont. At first I thought phyisical because I would be heart broken if I found out that my boyfriend had kissed or slept with another girl but at the same time, I couldnt take it if he thought he had feelings for someone else. Thats a good question though, im not sure. Both of them are pretty bad, not sure what one is worse though.

[*fender.chiq*]

I thought about this for ages. Since I read the thread hours ago actually.

And I've come to a conclusion.. They're both as bad. Because, you know, I wouldn't be able to live easily with either or them things. If my boyfriend kissed another girl or did something with her, then he must have had some attraction at least. And alcohol is never a good excuse. When you're drunk you don't completely lose your mind and start acting the total opposite of what you'd 'normally' do. And if he had emotional feelings for someone else, I'd feel bad because I wasn't the person he wanted to be with, so there'd be no point in the relationship, no matter how much I liked him.

So yeah. Either of them would screw me up inside. So in my opinion, they're probably about as bad as eachother.

[Shane]

Physical, you cannot help your feelings although there could be exceptions...

[Drunk_druid]

well, i stand by physical. Emotional id be hard done, but id live with it, its not really betrayel, just feelings and id probs just break up. But physical is controllable and therefore worse and id be really let down if my gf did that.

[~sexy_biatch~]

ive thought bout it and decided that they are both kinda bad but physical is the worst.
You cant help it if ya fancy someone, shit happens. If you like someone emotional it doesnt mean that if u hav a bf/gf that you will betray them with this.
You cant stop your emotions.
Physical is the worst because you bring it on your self, even though you could stop it!! My opinion anyway

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

physically because whats done is done and you cannot take it back also i recon its worse 2 hear that you bf has gone smwhere and got wid another girl where as feelings can be kept to yourself until the person knows what is best to do

[xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx]

Emotionally.

The physical stuff can be forgotten about, at least with me, because shit happens, but it's so much harder to deal with the emotional shootdown.

[Icy Jesse]

Physical, as I unfortunately just found out today...:(

[~sexy_biatch~]

Physical, as I unfortunately just found out today...:(
aww im sorry. what happened?

[*+*BeCcI*+*]

bless ya . physical because if your GF/BF finds out that u been goin out / meetin up wid peeps behind their backs n stuff then they wont b happy and like i sed emotional can be kept to ones self and physical cannot be retracted

[Bob!]

Id say physical.

With emotional well, that persons resolve might have been swayed a lil, might even be an understandable excuse such as bad times or whatever, but they might have swayed, and then realised itd be the wrong thing to do so theyd not actually done anythin.

With physical, its not just theyve felt like they wanted to do it, they HAVE gone and done it, which is far worse.

[Louise]

After thinking about it, physical is much worse. Sometimes you cant help how you feel, you cant help falling for someone or being attracted to someone because thats just something that happens sometimes. You can stop yourself from cheating though, you might not be able to control how you feel but you sure as hell can control what you do with someone. So yeah, physical is much worse in my opinion

[~sexy_biatch~]

What is the worse kind of betrayel/cheating?

physical.. when the guy/girl kisses or whatever else with another person?
OR
emotional...when the guy/girl has feelings for another person?


I think emotional is worse cos physical can be unintetional, like when someone is drunk or something.. but emotional cant be accidental & their feelings r involved..& i cant handle that.
Just out of curiosity, was there a reason why you made this thread? Like have you betrayed someone or been betrayed? or just wanted to know what every1 thought?
x

[pressure]

you cant really help who you fancy or like, its just the way your head and heart works
id say theya re both as bad as eachother

emotional because id hate it if my bf loved someone else, liked i spose is ok because i like other ppl, but i am in love with him

there is absolutely NO excuse for physical.
drunk or not, you still have some idea of what youa re doing and ur heart would say no, you cnt do this, if you really cared for the person you are with

[Mikhael]

have to say im wit shane on this one u cant help ur feelings so is u fancie sm1 u cant help it even if ur goin out wae sm1 else . Cant be helped