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Kitty
October 1st '06, 05:48 AM
OK.First off no matter if you like bi/lez it doesnt matter this is 100% dating question not a lesbian question. Ive been in love with my best friend for over a year. At the beginning of the year my other friend came out to me and confessed she loved me. Ok great, I was happy but I was still in love with my best friend. So I start dating girl #2. and well its been two weeks and here comes my best friend saying she wants me for herself.

My question is: I care about girl #2 but ive majorly loved my best friend for over a year and its like once I can finally have what i want im not able to have it. I know what I want but i dont want to hurt girl 2 cause shes such a caring loving friend and girlfriend. So what am I going to do please tell me. cause my gf(current one not my best friend) Doesn't need to be hurt again by someone she cares about.

PLEASE HELP ME!

Sweetest.x.Sin
October 7th '06, 04:08 AM
You need to do what's best for you, even in the dating World.
You need to drop this girl and date your Best Friend, because being with someone who is just another option to you is not fair for either of you.

Angel101
October 7th '06, 05:54 AM
Listen to your heart:), do what it tells you to do...

michelle
October 7th '06, 06:33 PM
^ like it says do what your heart says - always follow ur heart and do whats best for you

DiamondKing
October 8th '06, 05:34 AM
In my oppinion i think you should tell the girl you are dating the truth, going along with a relationship you dont want to be in is not only hurting yourself but the person you are dating as well. The longer the relationship lasts the more painful it will be when it ends.