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Lyddie
October 5th '06, 05:02 PM
A few days ago, One of my best friends' told me she has lost her virginity.
She's 14 years old- 15 soon though.
She told me on the phone, so I was telling her how it's illegal to have sex under the age of 16, she told me to shutup because it was her life and not mine.
=/
So anyway, I havn't told anyone because she asked me not to, but i'm REALLY worried about her- I know it's her life and I can't tell her how to live it...
Anyway, I tried bringing it up a few times- but she just changes the subject...
What am I supposed to do though, I don't know if she's planning on doing it again or anything, But she's 14 years old!
I considered telling her Mum, But that's not fair on her as it's not my place to tell her.
What should I do?

Bob!
October 5th '06, 05:35 PM
Tell her about protection and all the rest, wrights and wrongs and so on, let her know what she could be in for, then leave her to it, and learn the lessons from it yourself, as in what not to do.

NashTax
October 6th '06, 11:19 AM
I lost my verginity at 10 years old. lol.

punk-rocker
October 6th '06, 01:31 PM
nash !! daaaaaamn !!!!!!

..........
dont tell her mum
talk to her
even if she tries changes the subject

Bob!
October 6th '06, 02:13 PM
I lost my verginity at 10 years old. lol.

You most probably didn't as you cant even spell it right.

buthy-13
October 6th '06, 04:09 PM
You most probably didn't as you cant even spell it right.

lol

but believe nash u should not be proud of it

it may lead you to nowhere u wonna go to

buthy-13
October 6th '06, 04:11 PM
and about you lydia

if i was u i will go to her and tell talk to her and tell her that if she wont listen to me i'll have too deal the other way (to tell someone else)

Lyddie
October 6th '06, 06:26 PM
I tried to speak to her again today- She completely ignored me and walked away.
I've tried talking to her but if she won't listen I guess there's not much more I can do.
I just don't want anything to change between us two because we are such close friends but right now it feels like she's trying to block me out.
It's her life and she can make her own choices but I'm just worried about her...
=/

Bob!
October 6th '06, 10:24 PM
Well as I said, if she wants to be stupid and ignorant to you trying to give her advise, leave her be, her loss.

Just take it as a lesson for yourself when you see her ending up with a kid or so on, you lead your life, let her lead hers.

Angel101
October 7th '06, 06:09 AM
Are you sure that she hasnt made it up, to get attention? some people are like that. if it really happened, all you can really do is be there for her if she needs someone to talk to.

buthy-13
October 7th '06, 10:33 AM
then you ignore her


sorry to say that...but find a better friend :(

buthy-13
October 7th '06, 10:38 AM
anpther one who would care about you and your advice

HazelEyedHunni
October 18th '06, 12:22 AM
maybe she doesn't feel like you're trying to help her. It is true it is her life but you always need a friend. I lost my virginity at about 14 and a half and am still having sex for a year now, but I am with someone I love. (age of consent 12). If she doesn't listen atleast you can tell yourself you tried. I know my best friend doesn't consent to it for me but she has tried and it's not that i don't listen to her, it's just i feel that i am old enough to make my own decisions and what i feel is right for me should be ok