OK. I'm confused.

[Guest]

Please answer this the best you can, I know there is no way to tell what she's thinking, but hopefully a girl will understand this a tad bit better than I do..

Well I used to like this girl, the thing was, she was my best friends GF, who he had been dating for over a year, so I was staying away from her. I tried as hard as I could, but when the opportunity came, and they were about to break up, I let her know I liked her. She told me that she liked me too, and thats why things had been screwy with her and her BF. I should say now, that I had been best friends with her since the day I met her, which was nearly 2-3 years ago.

They broke up, but we didn't start dating, I wanted to hold it off so I could still keep my friendship with my best-guy friend. I waited a few weeks, and during this time, I spent a lot of time with the girl, we kissed a lot, and showed a lot of love towards each other.

I was at the point where I wanted to really be going out with her, so I mentioned it to her, she was thrilled. But a few days later, some guy took advantage of her at a party, which angered her, and led to her wanting me to fight him, which I did. I kicked his ass... Plain and simple. We started to really go out, than her friend told me, that that guy didn't take advantage of her, if anything, it was her who took advantage of her. I talked to her about it, and she denied it, and than lead into some big convo about how she liked him, I didn't understand... So I asked 2 other people who had been at the party, both said that HE took advantage of her. I knew for a fact they were telling the truth, and later on I found out the other person lied to me.

I was still confused why she was attracted to that guy after he had done that, he wasn't even a good looking guy... And he had a history of doing shit like that.

We were still going out, and things were fine, but I was careful that she wouldn't do something like that again. Thankfully she didn't, but there was a new problem. She started ignoring me for no reason.

I was fed up with all the drama she was trying to cause, and broke up with her, I knew she just wanted all this shitty attention. I was giving her tons, she just wanted more, so she made me feel guilty.

About 5 months past, and lately she has been acting like she likes me again. Shes been spending lunch with me, hugging me all the time, kissing me on the cheek, and texting me all the time. Today she texted me saying how she loved me so much, and it would always stay that way. She randomly said that... out of no where.

Is should point out now, while I was dating her, she fooled around with LOTs of myspace guys, and seemed to be doing a lot of stuff behind my back on there. Though I didn't have any proof about it, she always got moody when I mentioned it.

Does she like me again? Is there any point of dating her again, or will it just happen all over again?

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Okay, I'm going to tell you this from my point of view.
People break up for a reason, they are called your Ex for a reason. What reason you may ask? Because it didn't work out, and I've seen people break up, get back together, break up, get back together, and on and on until finally they had enough and that just added more and more problems and expanded the gaps between them and made it harder for them to move on which is what they should have done in the first place, so you two breaking up should be a sign that you are not meant to be together.
And outwardly she may say she has changed, but deep down they are always the same people, and it will come out of them and it sounds like she likes to fool around, you know, play in the field here and there and not with just you, so she is untrustworthy.
I wouldn't take her back.
Sounds like she does want to date you and she does like you, but maybe you should keep your distance because it would be best for the both of you in the end.
You can find someone better. Tell her to get attention someplace elsewhere.

[Angel101]

no offence intended

once a cheater always a cheater.

she seems to be turning you on and off whenever she feels like it. But i suppose that there is a slight possibility that she has changed, but as the previous person said, deep deep deeeep down they still the same person.

You deserve better, unless you really do still like her...

good luck
xXxX