breakup ..how 2 move on ?

[Brunette]

lets say you've been with someone you luv for qiute a while ..
and all of a sudden everythings over between you two , and you dont know how to live with out him\her ...
what's the best way to move on ??
i'm sure everyones gone through this :)

[PrincessAlice]

hmm well... i don't know cos i'm kind of going through it myself at moment i deal with things in my own way

[Kate]

Like Alice, im kinda going through it aswell, i dont know how il move on, its what happens when you really loved someone. I guess it takes someone else to come and sweep you off your feet. But for now i guess il just have to kill his new girlfriend with a chainsaw MUHAHAH.

[RANSTILINJR.]

Don't get mad at this for being kida stupid. But the way i get over stuff is to listen to rock music, or somthin hard. It has worked for me when i found out the girl I had been goin out with for 1 year was cheating on me. Don't get mad at me for bein kida kiddish untill you try it.

[_bosnian_]

first of all: cry, cry, cry. stay in bed and cry, remember the good and bad times you had with your bf; reminisce about it.... and then recognize, that you're better off without him and that the breakup isn't the end of the world

and after that: try to detract yourself from the break-up, be active (go out with friends etc.)

i know...perhaps it sounds strange but it's my method to deal with such a situation

[Brunette]

first of all: cry, cry, cry. stay in bed and cry, remember the good and bad times you had with your bf; reminisce about it.... and then recognize, that you're better off without him and that the breakup isn't the end of the world[/quote


and after that: try to detract yourself from the break-up, be active (go out with friends etc.)

i know...perhaps it sounds strange but it's my method to deal with such a situation
thats sweet .
y'know everything you said is right ..
it is known that first of all you should cry about it and let it all out , then try to stay buzy with your friends :)
i have cried about it alot and im through with crying , now i'm busy either with studying , or hanging around with my friends and laughing and having fun .
also i have male-friends who cant stop telling me what a pretty & smart girl i am , so it makes it easier :P :cool:

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RANSTILINJR. : i'm so sorry :( for your gf cheating at you . atleast now you know !

princessAlice and syria :) its easier to know that some1 else is going through it too

[michelle]

just been through this with my ex. the way i got over it was cryed for a whole weekend went out with friends and tried to have a laugh and basically tried to forget him deleted his number out of my phone pictures i had on comp everythings gone of him now and ive never been so happy. and know i like someone else so its great becasue i was sooooooo confused before. But yeah just try and have a laugh with mates and go out more it worked for me :D

[Brunette]

just been through this with my ex. the way i got over it was cryed for a whole weekend went out with friends and tried to have a laugh and basically tried to forget him deleted his number out of my phone pictures i had on comp everythings gone of him now and ive never been so happy. and know i like someone else so its great becasue i was sooooooo confused before. But yeah just try and have a laugh with mates and go out more it worked for me :D

you definetly sound happy !!! :) cool !!
i'm almost over it but i still need alittle more time .

[michelle]

^yeah i am happy nw and the best thing is i dont need to see my ex no more coz hes moved up north so its great :D:D

im sure ull get over it its just different for everybody but ull be fine :)

if not revenge can be good sometimes :)

[Brunette]

^yeah i am happy nw and the best thing is i dont need to see my ex no more coz hes moved up north so its great :D:D

im sure ull get over it its just different for everybody but ull be fine :)

if not revenge can be good sometimes :)

hahahah
believe me i'm planin' a revenge !! ;)

[michelle]

gdgd nice to hear it lol have fun planning it haha

[Brunette]

nehahahaah ! i know he wants revenge too ...

[buthy-13]

Don't get mad at this for being kida stupid. But the way i get over stuff is to listen to rock music, or somthin hard. It has worked for me when i found out the girl I had been goin out with for 1 year was cheating on me. Don't get mad at me for bein kida kiddish untill you try it.

it aint stupid i would do it if i did have a breakup

rock makes the soul jump
and makes u wakeup for life :p

[Dani_x]

i dont know i just try move on..like when i split with my ex who i loved more then anything..i just moved on..guess thats just my way off dealing with things. not saying il 4get him tho because i kno i wont but just try move on

[mean_girl]

keep reminding yourself that he/she are not the only ones on earth... you never know when someone better might cross your way. would that help?

but also... that's what friends are for

[Kate]

hehe well, im here as chainsaw massacre woman if you ever want me to kill any of them and their new girlfriendies :D

[_bosnian_]

oho. nothing is more dangerous than abandoned women :eek:

[Brunette]

keep reminding yourself that he/she are not the only ones on earth... you never know when someone better might cross your way. would that help?

but also... that's what friends are for

it does sista :D



hehe well, im here as chainsaw massacre woman if you ever want me to kill any of them and their new girlfriendies


LOL hahahahahha !!! i'm glad he doesnt have a GF ! :P i hope he never does lol

[metal-maniac-13]

It's not like you keep mourning over them day and night. You get yourself occupied with stuff...you go out with friends enjoy your time and totally forget they even exist.

But then...you remember them in your moments of solitude or say you bump into them or something. You start getting flashbacks and all of how close you used to be. And you miss them...it's like they turned into total strangers. People you no longer recognize. And this hurts.

[Kate]

argh metal i totally agree. Its like you see them and then see how happy they are (well in my case anyways) and you remember when you two were so happy. And you wonder how theyve moved on so fast, and your curious to know whether they still miss you, or hope that you can be back together. And then you feel down, and low, and you realise you really do need them.

[michelle]

speaking of ex's my ex boyfriend txt me friday night wen i was in huddersfield saying he still loved me lots and lots and tht he wants to get back togther if i was still single, and tht im the only girl hes ever cried over wen i finshed him and that he was sorry for not txtin me bk (as in wen we were goin out) he had problems at home and he knows he shouldn't have taken it out on me.
you should have seen my face wen i got tht txt i couldnt beloeve and the thing was it brought back all the feeling i had for him. so i txt him sayin phone me the stupid idiot dint phone me but he did saturday night but i dint answer my phone haha coz i dint have it on me :( but never mind lol
sent me another txt sayin he ment it wen he said he stil loved me



now i dont kno what to do :( is till like him alot but we need to talk about alot of things but i dont know what to do lol

[Brunette]

speaking of ex's my ex boyfriend txt me friday night wen i was in huddersfield saying he still loved me lots and lots and tht he wants to get back togther if i was still single, and tht im the only girl hes ever cried over wen i finshed him and that he was sorry for not txtin me bk (as in wen we were goin out) he had problems at home and he knows he shouldn't have taken it out on me.
you should have seen my face wen i got tht txt i couldnt beloeve and the thing was it brought back all the feeling i had for him. so i txt him sayin phone me the stupid idiot dint phone me but he did saturday night but i dint answer my phone haha coz i dint have it on me :( but never mind lol
sent me another txt sayin he ment it wen he said he stil loved me



now i dont kno what to do :( is till like him alot but we need to talk about alot of things but i dont know what to do lol

heres the thing .
if you like him , then go for it .
tell him you two should meet somewhere so that you can talk about what happened.
then talk about it honestly without any faking or hiding.
try to read between th lines and see if he really meant it or not , if you felt like he didnt then atleast you arent goin to wonder what could have happened .
and who know maybe he did mean it :)
good luck :)

[Guest]

Well i would forget bout them move on and get another bf or gf!! get over it jst b friends and move on tlk lk normal bt dnt flirt!!! jst act lk really gd friends bt remember they hv moved on so u shld! jst rmember that!! no shittin round forget bout them!!

[PrincessAlice]

sometimes its not the person you miss... its the feeling of having somebody there who loves you and only you that you miss

[Brunette]

sometimes its not the person you miss... its the feeling of having somebody there who loves you and only you that you miss

yeah :(
because you got used to having someone with you who loves you ..
he was better than any guy i'v ever known...

anywaysssss...:P i know he's not over me yet , too.

[Tallie]

you just need to smile to yourself and reassure yourself you'll get over it and all will be better

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Some of us bruise easily from bad relationships and can't pull ourselves together, but then again, people like me say fuck it and just don't give a shit and move on and find someone else, because there is no use mourning over one person because everybody goes through it, time heals everything and it's proven to be true, and there is not only one guy in the world. There are plenty, plenty nicer cuter ones. So go out and meet some, don't just sit in your room wallowing in despair over that one guy. Sounds kinda pointless to me don't you think?

[Brunette]

Some of us bruise easily from bad relationships and can't pull ourselves together, but then again, people like me say f*ck it and just don't give a shit and move on and find someone else, because there is no use mourning over one person because everybody goes through it, time heals everything and it's proven to be true, and there is not only one guy in the world. There are plenty, plenty nicer cuter ones. So go out and meet some, don't just sit in your room wallowing in despair over that one guy. Sounds kinda pointless to me don't you think?

yeah i agree !!
i am over it now . time really heals everything !
and i just want to stay away from a serious relationship for a while .