We are SO distant

[unloved__x3]

I'm seeing this boy Lewis right now and I really like him, but we are both REALLY distant http://www.kawaiiville.com/images/smilies/frown.gif I mean, I know we havent seen eachother that many times but I've only kissed him once, well twice really but the 1st time was only a crappy one on the lips [lol] And we only done that 'cos my 2 best friends kept buggin as to http://www.kawaiiville.com/images/smilies/frown.gif The reason Im not close to him is because I don't want him to think im slutty and pushy, and I also think that if he wants to kiss me then he's the guy so he should try to kiss me first, but he is really quiet http://www.kawaiiville.com/images/smilies/frown.gif so maybe that's why he doesn't.

[~Wayne~]

Some people are just very shy thats all

[unloved__x3]

I know, but is it normal? =/ Whenever we are around we talk more like friends to eachother :( He talks more to my friend Abi than me :(

[DiamondKing]

Some people are just really shy and worried that if they make the wrong move at the wrong time it will mess everything up, that may be his problem, so why dont you make the first move to let him know thats what you want. As far as talking to your friend more than you, does he see her more often than you? like do they have classes together and everything? If not he might be worried about saying the wrong thing to you, i was that way and i would always look at the bad what ifs, he may be the same way. Just let him know that theres no reason to be worried about saying or doing the wrong thing.

--Diamond

[unloved__x3]

I thinkim like that aswell :( Thats why I never make the first move, so we're as bad as eachother really I can't help myself it's just the way I am. he isnt a quiet person normaly, only when he's with me =/

[DiamondKing]

Well, all i can say is one of you is going to have to make the first move if you want to have a relationship with him, and from what ive read it looks like its gonna have to be you.

[unloved__x3]

Yer I guess, I was afraid you were going to say that [lol] Thanks 4 the advice anyway :hugz:

[buthy-13]

Some people are just really shy and worried that if they make the wrong move at the wrong time it will mess everything up, that may be his problem, so why dont you make the first move to let him know thats what you want. As far as talking to your friend more than you, does he see her more often than you? like do they have classes together and everything? If not he might be worried about saying the wrong thing to you, i was that way and i would always look at the bad what ifs, he may be the same way. Just let him know that theres no reason to be worried about saying or doing the wrong thing.

--Diamond

true

[unloved__x3]

We are a bit better now :) yay! Not great, but better:) yayness~ :D [lol]

[Kate]

Umpfh, my friends Caz and Jeff had the exact same problem, in the end they broke up. They were both two really shy people. Shy people shouldnt be together really.

[unloved__x3]

I have to admit I agree with that :(. We are getting much better though :)

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

Shy and daring don't go together for several good reasons.
One is because it never works out, and two is because if you want him to kiss you and he is too shy to get into that kinds of stuff, that is probably a sign that you should find someone else.
Shy people are so boring.

[Lenny]

go at your own pace.. who cares what everyone else thinks