To males ...would you date or love a phy-raped women

[buthy-13]

so would you ???O_O just wondering

[God.]

a what?

I've never seen the term phy-raped. I assume it means someone who has been physically raped, but i really don't have the foggiest. Enlighten me.

[~Wayne~]

If it does mean raped then I may do, it isn't their fault and they shouldn't have to be labelled with it

[buthy-13]

a what?

I've never seen the term phy-raped. I assume it means someone who has been physically raped, but i really don't have the foggiest. Enlighten me.

physically raped

[God.]

thought so. They're not sub-human are they? of course I'd love her, same as I'd love a " normal" woman....:/

[Lindsay]

isn't all rape physical?? :S

[Nintendus]

physically raped
As opposed to? :P

Also, of course it makes absolutely no difference.

[buthy-13]

well this question came coz i see and know lotsa stories of men who devorce their wifes just coz they were raped..

[NewAbortion]

Seriously, are there other kinds of rape besides physical rape? Unless, I suppose, you're talking about the other definition of rape, but that would be irrelevant regarding this topic....fuck, I'm rambling.

~Maggot

[~Wayne~]

Any man that would do that is fucked up, they make it seem that the woman wanetd it to happen almost

[NATAL!E]

I've been in a kind of situation like this.

And guy's i've got close to know what happened, and they just take it in their stride and make an effort to protect me. it's never make a lad turn around and go 'whoa, i dont want you now'. though in all honesty, it's not the woman's fault, so they shouldnt be branded for life with it. it's already a mental brand, let alone being dismissed because of something beyond their control.

[buthy-13]

I've been in a kind of situation like this.

And guy's i've got close to know what happened, and they just take it in their stride and make an effort to protect me. it's never make a lad turn around and go 'whoa, i dont want you now'. though in all honesty, it's not the woman's fault, so they shouldnt be branded for life with it. it's already a mental brand, let alone being dismissed because of something beyond their control.

some guy's just never think what they've just lost of you:)

[Pearson]

well this question came coz i see and know lotsa stories of men who devorce their wifes just coz they were raped..

Iv heard stories like this, it only regarded Muslims though.

As for the original question. Yes, its not her fault at all.

[Florentine]

I agree with you pearson.

When i read the topic title i felt like screaming: WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT!?

[buthy-13]

Iv heard stories like this, it only regarded Muslims though.

As for the original question. Yes, its not her fault at all.

my question was very general..what does my relegion has to do with it

gosh pearson why are you such a cold person

[buthy-13]

I agree with you pearson.

When i read the topic title i felt like screaming: WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT!?

i know tones of ENGLISH women who never been datet coz every time they tell someone they've been raped that SOMEONE backs off

[Shane]

I'd date them but it's not soemthing you just spring upon a guy early on in a Relationship. :/

"Hi, my name is Susie, I have been raped, fancy coming back to mine and getting me pregnant?"

[buthy-13]

I'd date them but it's not soemthing you just spring upon a guy early on in a Relationship. :/

"Hi, my name is Susie, I have been raped, fancy coming back to mine and getting me pregnant?"
hehe

looool

[IceBurn3000]

I'm going with the majority on this one. It's not like it was the womans fault she was raped. Of course I would go out with her.

[Tallie]

i think any kind of rape is bad. but just saying men is totally sexist. women can rape people too.
did anyone see in the news about the lesbian who was raped by a man. why the heck was her being a lesbian important really? just coz she's a lesbian doesn't mean more harm. all rape is bad

[buthy-13]

i think any kind of rape is bad. but just saying men is totally sexist. women can rape people too.
did anyone see in the news about the lesbian who was raped by a man. why the heck was her being a lesbian important really? just coz she's a lesbian doesn't mean more harm. all rape is bad

yeah i agree

[!Jazzy!]

isn't all rape physical?? :S

there is also emotional rape... :(

[buthy-13]

there is also emotional rape... :(

yeah physical maybe as sexual and emotional

[Tallie]

any is bad. it's just disgusting they think they have the right.

[buthy-13]

any is bad. it's just disgusting they think they have the right.

yeah truely

[Tallie]

i think its disgusting when it happens to babies, did you hear about the three month of. how?

[Tallie]

anyone who thinks about it is disgusting

[buthy-13]

i think its disgusting when it happens to babies, did you hear about the three month of. how?

yeah *puke* i heard of a 3 moth yr old baby that was abuesed by hisbabysiters

[NashTax]

No I would not.

[NewAbortion]

No I would not.Why not?

~Maggot

[IceBurn3000]

No I would not.
Yes... Why not? How is she any different to any other woman?

[michelle]

if man cant date a woman just because shes been raped theres something wrong with him

would he ever date someones whos been abused?

[buthy-13]

No I would not.

whats your good reason then?!

i'm glad you said the truth but we need to know why?

[Pearson]

my question was very general..what does my relegion has to do with it

gosh pearson why are you such a cold person

Religious people will be a lot moe choosy about dating women, for reasons such as these. I havent heard any stories like this other than regarding Muslims, I was just saying that because I cant think of why anyone who is'nt strictly reigious would instantly dismiss a women because she's been raped.

[NATAL!E]

I was thinking, right. This question is posed to males. What about females? Men can and have been raped too, hundreds of thousands of men have been raped. A limited number actually make a statememnt about it though, because they're ashamed.

I'd never, ever turn a guy down who had the courage to tell me he'd been sexually assaulted/raped.

It's never the person's fault. Attacks are most often, unprovoked and with no reasoning. That makes it harder for the victims to come to terms with. It's a lot to understand what's happened and have closure of it in their head. And people never know what it really feels like unless they've been through it.

But yeah, I'd never, ever say no to a guy who'd been raped. Infact, I'd respect him more for being able to trust me enough to tell me. Same would go if I was a lad and it was a woman who i liked that had been raped.

And sorry, but over here, i've honestly NEVER heard of women being rejected because of rape!

[buthy-13]

Religious people will be a lot moe choosy about dating women, for reasons such as these. I havent heard any stories like this other than regarding Muslims, I was just saying that because I cant think of why anyone who is'nt strictly reigious would instantly dismiss a women because she's been raped.


dude this is to all people like the guy who posted up that he wouldn't i believe he ain't no muslim and im sure most of the ones who said that..are just saying but not doing i've seen movies and stories about it
usa .brazil.even britain and maybe muslims do..but in my opinion you know more bad not true stuff about muslims than you know about your self

[Brunette]

i dont think a man should look down at a raped woman .
its not her fault , and he should grow up .
but rape doesnt happen that much in our country anyways .

[Will]

I was thinking, right. This question is posed to males. What about females? Men can and have been raped too, hundreds of thousands of men have been raped. A limited number actually make a statememnt about it though, because they're ashamed.

I'd never, ever turn a guy down who had the courage to tell me he'd been sexually assaulted/raped.

It's never the person's fault. Attacks are most often, unprovoked and with no reasoning. That makes it harder for the victims to come to terms with. It's a lot to understand what's happened and have closure of it in their head. And people never know what it really feels like unless they've been through it.

But yeah, I'd never, ever say no to a guy who'd been raped. Infact, I'd respect him more for being able to trust me enough to tell me. Same would go if I was a lad and it was a woman who i liked that had been raped.

And sorry, but over here, i've honestly NEVER heard of women being rejected because of rape!
I've been raped Natalie, you up for it? :hump:

[Bebot]

isn't all rape physical?? :S

lol!
u hav a point!

[buthy-13]

lol!
u hav a point!

there is emotional rape
blackmail
lieing

[Florentine]

Oh okay buthy i get now why you asked this question.
I can't believe how shallow a guy/girl can be for not dating that person who got raped.

.... thank god my boyfriend isnt that shallow and he still wants to be with me:)

xx

[iaxa]

As opposed to? :P

Also, of course it makes absolutely no difference.

date rape?

and no i wouldnt care. it is i nthe past so i wouldnt care. i would be there if she needed comfort but i wouldnt not call her non human. if anything she would be above human for deal with that kind of pain

[unloved__x3]

I'd date them but it's not soemthing you just spring upon a guy early on in a Relationship. :/

"Hi, my name is Susie, I have been raped, fancy coming back to mine and getting me pregnant?"
Agreed [lol]
It's not really a great first conversation starter.

[buthy-13]

lol

hmm
well i have a friend from england who was raped drunk and she said that she feels guilty for even telling her b/f he yelled at her in the resturant "you've been RAPED...whaaaat?"that hurt her and HE broke up with her thinking that it ain't the guys fault

[unloved__x3]

Omg!
What an asshole.
My friend Michelle got raped a few years ago and got pregnant,
she kept the baby and her boyfriend is even raising the baby as his own with her.
Michelle's super lucky to have him as her boyfriend tho i doubt many people would do that.

[buthy-13]

Omg!
What an asshole.
My friend Michelle got raped a few years ago and got pregnant,
she kept the baby and her boyfriend is even raising the baby as his own with her.
Michelle's super lucky to have him as her boyfriend tho i doubt many people would do that.

awwwww sweet

he's one of a kind