Confused if I'm bi or straight..

[chocolatepocky]

Man I'm so confused..

Ok, I definitely know I like guys (a lot) so I can't be lesbian...

But there's this girl I know... and I think I have feelings for her. I think about dating her and kissing her... but I don't actually want to have sex with her.

Also, people say she sometimes looks like a guy.

Might this just mean I like her for her masculine qualities?
Or am I actually bi?

Oh... before her, there was another girl >.< She was a tomboy, but really cool person to hang out with. I think I liked her because the way she walked reminded me of a guy I really liked...

Lol, so, do you think I'm straight and only like these girls for their masculine qualities?
Or am I just bi?

[mandude]

I'd say straight. Probably just an expiremental phase.

[beth92]

Quite a few of my friends of gone through this it is just a phase and then laten on in life is probably the right time to work out if you bi or straight

[Sweetest.x.Sin]

I think that everybody thinks about the same types of sex in their lifetime, at some point.
That doesn't really make you bi, but if you are, don't be ashamed of it. It's normal, and there's nothing wrong with it, and anyone who thinks otherwise can go fuck themselves.
Maybe you are thinking that you like her because she reminds you of this one guy you had feelings for, like you said.
That's probably all it is.

[beth92]

:agree: :cheers:

[Darts]

Hmmm it could be experimental. But I think the only time you can consider yourself as bisexual is if you'd actually take a girl as your girlfriend, in a proper relationship, and not just messing about for the excitement. Trust me I've had to think about this myself a few times but its normal to find girls attractive. After all, we ARE the superior gender :D

[Guest]

Lol okay thanks for the great advice you guys!!! :D

But I just wanted to let you guys know about another thing... I haven't really found a guy attractive for quite a while now... Does this mean anything?

[chocolatepocky]

Oops ^^" Sorry I forgot to sign in when I made a post..

Um well thanks for the great advice guys!! It really helps tonnes.

But I have another thought... I haven't found a guy attractive in ages... does this mean anything?

[Darts]

Nope I don't think it makes any difference, I'm pretty much straight and can go for ages without ever meeting a guy I like n so can quite a few of my friends. But why not try it and see if you like it? Here's my number........

LOL

[chocolatepocky]

Lol cool thanks.

Haha I might just take you up on the offer ;)
Hahahaha ^_^

[Sponge'K'nob]

lmao yeah just go to a gay bar or something and then to a normal bar with hot guys and see which you like best. if both then you're bi. or greedy.

[Tallie]

you could just be curious coz you are young. don't make assumptions just yet hun. see how it goes

[Darts]

Methinks am greedy.

Lol.

[Sponge'K'nob]

lmao!!!!!!!!

[Kate]

hahaha Dartys!!
God i love you and your humour <3333

[Darts]

Syria.......... I just love you! :D

[Kate]

ahhaha!
Well I just love you too! <333333

[Bob!]

hahaha Dartys!!

God i love you and your humour <3333

Thing is there, she aint jokin :P

[Boy_Wonder06]

Awww bless yah a girlie in crisis, nar huni i think its bout time u learnt something lol, a lot of people go through the 'bi curious stage' in life, i think someone else already mentioned it earlier but hey lol. Its where your body just looks around to see whats on offer really, it dont mean your bi or anythink like that.

Your body is just 'curious'.... Erm with you it seems like you are interested in masculinety so id say you were probs straight, or thats atleast how id interpret it.

At the end of the day know one cares whether your bi straight or full on lesbien, TF loves yah no mata what lol.

So chill out enjoy the ride and hey if youg et with a girl then just see what happens, i wouldnt worry about it to be honest.

Feel free to message me or even one of the brilliant Agony aunts' uncles on here for more help.

[chocolatepocky]

Thanks Boy Wonder (and everyone else too)

Hehe I think you guys are probably right. Curious stage lol, and even if its not, I'm not afraid or embarassed of being bi. And yep, I know you guys will always be here right? :D Right...? Lol :P


(IM GREEDY!! xD)

[rissa28]

i'd definitly say straight. im a lesbain and like they are saying its just your curious stage. some girls are attracted to other girls physical features but that dont make them lesbians

[Kerry]

I agree whoever said experimental phase, I gee you're straight.