Should I give up on my dad??

[Guest]

write m gonna cut a reallllly long story reeallly short!
when i was 3/4 my mum & dad split up, he then became a weekend dad but we were still dead close...
he then moved away and became a dad hu i cn every few months... but we wud email n txt daily.... and we would spent 2 weeks together @ summer and they would always be the hightlight of the year.... just like amazing!!
he then moved 2 thailand without tellin me & met a thai woman. i found out cuz i cn sumthin n the internet..... i email him and he apoligogised 4 keepin me n the dark wen and sed he loved me sooo much it hurt,.
he then moved bak without tellin me now and says the reaon he kept me in the dark was because he felt ashamed that he came bak from thailand with nothing.....
he seems 2 av 4gotten i existed... aint cn him 4 18months!!
i email him n stuff but its rare if he replies i really wanna c him again....... miss him like mad...
dunno wat 2 do....
were did it all go round we use 2b soooo close!

cant be doin with this rejection...

[Dani_x]

send him a email maybe explaining how you feel about not seeing him and such

[Kate]

Your english short language is appauling.
I dont understand half of this.
Is cn supposed to mean can?

[iaxa]

yeah. but i know sort of how feel my mum and dad broke up when i was only 8. i didnt no what has happening. cause they were both screamming at each other but i dont no how to help u because they made up and now they are friends. it was still very hard for me. it hiot my sister really hard aswell but she was older than me.

[Bebot]

Your english short language is appauling.
I dont understand half of this.
Is cn supposed to mean can?

i think it means seen..

i cant be sure tho

[Kate]

hahah bebot :P

[omgitsclaudia]

kill the mother fucker, you guys...go on nexopia, this is so gay!

[TheMan]

send him a email maybe explaining how you feel about not seeing him and such

she types like a retard, giving a phonecall might be better.

[lovin_it]

u guys, she's having a prob with her dad and needs advice and all u can talk is about how she writes? anyway, tell him how you feel and that you feel rejected. don't give up on your dad though because u only have one dad. maybe emailing him all the time and asking him fr his number might help. then when that's achieved maybe you can see him as much as you like. arrange a date when you can meet up and that. if he says that he's busy all the time then that's not what i call dad. go on holiday to thailand whenever you have money. just make sure you do the right thing. good luck

[Kate]

Shut up lovin_it.
We would give her advice if we could read what shes saying..!

[Shield]

From the scarce fragments of your story that I could actually understand, I urge you to continue trying.

It's very important to keep a good relationship with your parents and relatives.

I've had a terrible relationship with my dad, and it's critically hurting the both of us. I wish reconciliation is possible, but I doubt it. I hate him and he hates me. I gave up a while ago.

[NewAbortion]

Like many others, I had serious difficulty understanding what the f*ck you were saying. So, solely based on what I could comprehend, I'd say just give up and let him do what he wants. He's obviously not interested in being a real dad (for whatever reason), so you shouldn't try to make him interested. It's his choice, let him make it. If he doesn't realize by now what he should be doing, then he probably never will.

Really, you don't need him. Having a dad you're close to isn't essential. Life will go on.

~Maggot

[Kate]

lol laura.. :P

[NewAbortion]

lol laura.. :PO_o Do I know you?

~Maggot