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Criss459
December 12th '06, 02:45 PM
Ok I have this guy friend who is also my ex who loves to hide things from me. We get along really well. We joke around a lot and we have fun together. He says he likes me which I can't help but feel the same but he is the biggest liar I have ever known. He says he's single but I know for a fact that he's not. I know his girlfriend [[not well tho but I know who she is]] and they have been together for just over a year now if not more I don't know the exact date. He will never come out and say it either. He just keeps saying I'm the only one he wants and the only one he thinks about but he has a gf! We talk all the time and there are times when he's like 'oh my mom is on the other line' when I know it's his gf calling him.

I don't want to tell him I know about it. I want him to finally confess that he's with someone else. I just want him to be honest with me.

I dated him just over a year ago for about 2 months - not even - and I ended up breaking it off coz he was with her! He told me he would spend New Years with his family and I ended up hearing that he was with her instead and I even had pictures to prove it. I confronted him about it and he denied ever being away from family and then accussed me of talking bullshit until I told him I had the pics to show him if he really thought I was the one LYING. He told me at the time that I had made him vulnerable and that she was there and she made him forget his pain.. ?

There was one time when he finally said he had been dating her. He actually admitted it but he said that she dumped him because he was too childish. He told me that when he was dating me .. they were on a break so it wasn't cheating [[I don't know if this is true..I doubt it tho]]

He said that he had never seen her before and hasn't since and that he was sorry. He even says he wishes he could change what happened as if he's sincerly sorry. You think he could be?

And the most ridiculous thing is .. I still have feelings for him! Idk what to do. ..

Shield
December 12th '06, 02:50 PM
Tell him what you told us.

~Wayne~
December 12th '06, 02:57 PM
Well guys that lie ain't worth the time of day- Once they do it they'll do it again

bam_rocks
December 12th '06, 03:00 PM
yer tht and if you feel lyk u can't confront himface to face txt himbout it or ring him up

~Wayne~
December 12th '06, 03:18 PM
I personally don't recommend texting when it comes to things like this,its cowardly and doesn't get the point across well at all.

Criss459
December 12th '06, 03:23 PM
but that's the thing.. i'd rather he tell me the truth. you ever think he could possibly just come out and say it to me ?

i really think i'm asking too much .. haha

Angel101
December 12th '06, 05:40 PM
you are gonna hafte confront him if you really want him to tell. you cant prevent who you have feelings for. but this guy seems to lie through his teeth..

good luck

Lenny
December 14th '06, 03:09 AM
i agree with the comment above!

Bwcad1
December 22nd '06, 08:34 PM
Im the boy in this thread. me and crystal had a long talk to night and i hope it brought some light to my situation.

but im an idiot i screwed up and i know it.