sometimes its just better to cry

[Criss459]

i know this may sound so stupid coz it kinda does in my own mind but i'm gonna say it anyway in case anyone has ever been in the same situation or something.. i don't know..

i feel so down at the moment. i pine for the ex that cheated on me and i know it sounds crazy because i know i should let him go and move on. it's just i don't want to. well, in the beginning i tried .. i did actually .. or at least i thought i did coz i thought i was over him .. but lately i've been thinking that i wasn't being honest with myself because i still have strong feelings for him now.

we've been over for a year just about in a month's time and yet he's always on my mind. i get so emotional over the whole thing and i know i need to move on.. it's just difficult. i really liked him.. part of me doesn't care about anything -- what he did, what he could do.. i just want to be with him

i've dated a few guys since then but i can't get him out of my mind. i mean, it's been a year! you think i'd be over him coz we weren't even dating that long!!! --someone slap me, maybe it'd know some sense into me ..

can anyone say hopeless -- might wanna add helpless to that too -- romantic ..

[Shield]

It's true that the worse you treat girls, the more they want you.

Anyways, these things take time. Sooner or later you'll be up on your feet again and hopping in fields with rabbits and grasshoppers. That's the beauty of life.

[Criss459]

::whatever happened to that 2:1 rule. if you dated a guy, it takes at least half that time to finally move on::

like if you dated him for 6 months, it takes 3 months to finally get over the guy

it wasn't even two months! aha

[Tami]

some women/girls just aren't worth it.
if she heated on you then she can't have been that good for you in the first place, i understand relationships are hard to get over but why spend your life sad over one girl. because the time you spend being sad about one failed relationship, you could spend that time and effort on another (if you want one) or just go out and have fun. but at the end of the day you wil need to get over that one girl, most of us remeber (speeking from peopel i know) the first time we had a failed relationship and it hurt
hope this helped
and if not good luck with the future
x

[Bebot]

i know what ur going thru.my ex was a total jerk,yet deep inside,i still have feelings for him...but ive told myself that no matter what happens,i will never get back with him again ..

[Liora]

I was in the same situation last summer.
I met a guy that I fell madly in love with, who took my virginity.
Well a little while in the relationship I found out that he had a girlfriend that he was living with, and the whole time he was just using me for sex and to hook up a 3som.

At first I felt so betrayed, I went CRAZY. I would sleep all day, scream, throw things, I even tried to kil myself. Soon the sadness turned into anger. When I got over all those feelings he tried to get back with me and I just kept thinking, you know, I was so happy with him. Maybe he won't do it again and we can be happy again, just me and him. But that doesnt happen.

When guys cheat they have the abitlity to do it over and over again. If they think they can get away with something theyll do it. People are like that. I dont understand why, but some people need that power to know they can I guess.

Well I didnt take him back. I realized that there are so many handsom guys out there, that will be rough when you want them to be, but who will cater to your every move.
It may take a while to find the Mr Right. Or at least just keep your eyes open. Dont waste a good chance on him.

Stay strong!
You're better then him.