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Guestttt
January 2nd '07, 03:49 AM
Everything is solid in my relationship with my girlfriend. There is one thing I would like to change about myself though.

Sometimes when I'm in a mood, I will get depressed for no reason and she would get depressed aswell because of it. Then I blame it on things that are no big deal.

I think the reason why I get depressed is being over protective, and the fear of losing her. I love her so much I try to make everything perfect but I end up being a butt head

It doesn't bother her much, but I want to stop it.. not just for me but for us.

Sometimes I get like that too much, and I complain that her shirt is too skimpy. But that's not how I normally am, and it's only when I get in a depressed mood.

Can anyone help me out? Or any words of advice?

Mikhael
January 2nd '07, 10:16 AM
Just talk to her about it but try not to seem really Desperate (unfortunatly it is a defo turn off)

Kate
January 2nd '07, 02:05 PM
Does she understand you?
How does she react to this?

Conflicted17
January 4th '07, 05:57 PM
Alright look heres the deal when your with her it should be bliss you should be entirely content because she obviously wants to be with you. If you really need to worry about losing her do it when your not with her. I know how you feel. I fell in love with a woman i can never have but she still gives me her friendship and she says she is in love with me. It is enough for me.

Sweetest.x.Sin
January 5th '07, 11:09 PM
Stop being a butthead. :P