Smilez
January 6th '07, 07:33 PM
There are these two guys that I like. One of them i've known for years and we're really good friends. I've liked him for pratically three years and now he seems to be interested in me. He broke up with his ex about 3 months ago and he's really hurt about it. Lately he's been talking to me so much more and flirting with me a whole lot. Like just touching me lightly and always wanting to hang out. Yesterday we hung out outside school for like the first time and we called other people to see if they wanted to chill and no one could so it was just me and him. We kinda held hands a little bit and got kinda close but we didn't do anything even though i could tell he wanted to.
Now im a little conflicted b/c the other guy I like more. Ive only known him for like 5 months but I know enough about him and we're good friends too. I chill with him a couple times and we've held hands also and he's always touching me too but not like in a bad sexual way or else Id be mad.
The problem with him is that he just got back together with his ex who is the worst possible person for him. (Cheated on him maaaad times and can never make up her mind; he's pretty much her rebound and all his friends have told him and he knows they are right but he doesn't care) Thing is that when that happened and everyone was mad at him I asked why as everybody doing that. The other guy who I like was going to tell me (both the guys I like are really good friends) but then he kinda looked at him like no don't tell her. I think he did that cuz he likes me and didn't want me to know that he was going out with his ex. I know that he will break up with his ex and i really do like him more.
I cant decide what to do b/c they are both want I reallly want in a guy. If I get with the one I've liked for years then I can't get with the guy i really like cuz that's just wrong. All three of us hang out everyday and we're getting closer and closer. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do???
Now im a little conflicted b/c the other guy I like more. Ive only known him for like 5 months but I know enough about him and we're good friends too. I chill with him a couple times and we've held hands also and he's always touching me too but not like in a bad sexual way or else Id be mad.
The problem with him is that he just got back together with his ex who is the worst possible person for him. (Cheated on him maaaad times and can never make up her mind; he's pretty much her rebound and all his friends have told him and he knows they are right but he doesn't care) Thing is that when that happened and everyone was mad at him I asked why as everybody doing that. The other guy who I like was going to tell me (both the guys I like are really good friends) but then he kinda looked at him like no don't tell her. I think he did that cuz he likes me and didn't want me to know that he was going out with his ex. I know that he will break up with his ex and i really do like him more.
I cant decide what to do b/c they are both want I reallly want in a guy. If I get with the one I've liked for years then I can't get with the guy i really like cuz that's just wrong. All three of us hang out everyday and we're getting closer and closer. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do???