My cousin

[unloved__x3]

I love my cousin Gemma to bits,
she's 14 and im 15 so Ive nearly known her my whole life.

When she was a kid she used to be one of those lil perfect girls who wouldnt do anything wrong.
I have to admit it used to wind me up,
but now she has changed COMPLETELY.

Her 14th birthday was about 5 months ago and almost instantly after her birthday she changed =/

Like I said I love her....but she is a slut!

She's 14 and have had sex more times than I can count,
She has given her friend a blowjob for a dare,
she give her other friend a hand job for a 50p mix,
she has had sex with her best friend's bf.
etc.

She goes drink driving with her older friends for fun,
takes LSD, speed, dope etc.
Has once again...given somebody a blowjob for dope.
And now...she wants a baby with her 'boyfriend' he isnt even her proper boyfriend, she has admitted it to me before he uses her for sex and she uses him for sex =/.....WTF?

I know I can't control her life but I care about her,
I don't want her to carry on like this =/
And I can't tell her parents because she lives with her nan...and her grand daughter given somebody a bj for dope isnt exactly something I wanna tell a 67 year old women lol.

What should I do?
x

[xAddictedx]

Tell your parents then. Surely they'd be able to handle the situation correctly. They are adults after all, but just tell some adult that can do something about it because she's gonna end up in some worse places once she gets older and keeps this up. Prison doesn't sound like much fun.

[Stunt]

She may hate you for a while after you tell them, but she will learn to thank you after. She shouldn't be doing dope either, which should be the biggest concern.

[Helena]

You should really tell an adult because the way things sound, she's just going to get herself into more trouble.

[Mikhael]

You as her cousin should help her through this. You should probably slap her hard (anno that sounds rash) and tell her about her future . She is young ad foolish and hanging around with the rong people and now she is younger she needs to learn before its to late. Shouting and giving a big speech will get the point across. it may sound harsh but she has to learn

[Rashella]

Maybe she's stressed and trying to make herself feel better?

If she used to be normal maybe something triggered her behaviour? I dunno but you shouldnt ignore the problem because she's going to get hurt.

[dhenyck]

I love my cousin Gemma to bits,
she's 14 and im 15 so Ive nearly known her my whole life.

When she was a kid she used to be one of those lil perfect girls who wouldnt do anything wrong.
I have to admit it used to wind me up,
but now she has changed COMPLETELY.

Her 14th birthday was about 5 months ago and almost instantly after her birthday she changed =/

Like I said I love her....but she is a slut!

She's 14 and have had sex more times than I can count,
She has given her friend a blowjob for a dare,
she give her other friend a hand job for a 50p mix,
she has had sex with her best friend's bf.
etc.

She goes drink driving with her older friends for fun,
takes LSD, speed, dope etc.
Has once again...given somebody a blowjob for dope.
And now...she wants a baby with her 'boyfriend' he isnt even her proper boyfriend, she has admitted it to me before he uses her for sex and she uses him for sex =/.....WTF?

I know I can't control her life but I care about her,
I don't want her to carry on like this =/
And I can't tell her parents because she lives with her nan...and her grand daughter given somebody a bj for dope isnt exactly something I wanna tell a 67 year old women lol.

What should I do?
x



dude...ask her to stop what she's doing...if needed, beg for it...
She will realize that her life is already miserable and she will also realize she choose a worng direction and SHE WILL REALIZED SHE HAS A CARING FRIEND THAT LOVES HER SO MUCH..... just pray..GOD knows what to do.....

[Leon]

You as her cousin should help her through this. You should probably slap her hard (anno that sounds rash) and tell her about her future . She is young ad foolish and hanging around with the rong people and now she is younger she needs to learn before its to late. Shouting and giving a big speech will get the point across. it may sound harsh but she has to learn

i agree, and you should tell somebody, maybe your parents


If she used to be normal maybe something triggered her behaviour? I dunno but you shouldnt ignore the problem because she's going to get hurt.

i also agree with this, could you think of anything that could have triggerred it because that could be why shes acting like that

[tf_arl_90]

Get her help.

What could have possibly caused such a drastic change? Did something happen? Is she seeking attention, and these are the only people she can get it from?

It sounds as if she's headed down a dangerous path. Good luck in sorting it all out.

[chocolatepocky]

Telling the parents seems like the way to go.. she's way too young for all this and no matter how old you are you shouldn't be doing all those drugs and all that.

Besides the fact that society finds all this very much unacceptable (meh), she's exposing herself to a lot of dangers like contracting diseases through sharing any needles for drugs, STDs from intercourse, etc.

Also, if she ever wants to have a real relationship with more in it than sex, she might not even be taken seriously. People judge each other on reputations and rumours, best to keep it clean.

How did that sudden change occur anyway? That's just weird...