how would u feel..

[zena]

how would u feel if ur parents forced ya to marry this guy at the age of 20..well da guy's very good..let's jus sae..da stuff a gurl expects from a guy..and u like dat guy too..
for me..i feel dat i still gotta grow up..my god 20..i'm still young..maybe 22 or 23 will b fine..but 20..no wae!!

p.s...guys jus change the guy to a girl & tell me ur views

[pressure]

if i was forced to get married at 20, id disown my parents
no one forces me to do anything i dont wana do

id completely hate the idea of it and probably get a divorce and get married when i want to

or jus refuse to do it in the first place

[*fender.chiq*]

If it was part of my culture then I suppose I'd have to accept it. I love my parents, and I wouldn't want to make them lose faith and love in me because I refuse to be or do what they want. I mean, if the guy was a really really nice man, then I don't see why a good, loving relationship couldn't be built on that.

In my culture I can marry and go out with who I want. I'm happy the way it is. But if it's your culture then it's most likely you have to accept that, everyone has a different lifestyle and is brought up differently!

[Bob!]

Id tell em to F*** right off lol.

We have our own rights as humans, no one but ourselves can dictate who we give ourselves to. Also even if the lass was nice, id prefer to find the person for me by myself, hell even if i never did then for me itd be better than feeling fake.

[Mamfy]

I can't decide on this one. yeah we all have our own decisions to make and should chose what we want to do but at the end of the day, if it is through religion then that is the way you are going to have to be. Unless you don't wnat to be that religion anymore, in which case you will have to tell your parents.

But I don't see why you wouldn't wanna marry a guy who is completely perfect for you and your parents approve!

But yeah, like Bob! I would rather make my own decisions on who I want to marry, that way it will be more personal and special:)

[D3c3p7ioN]

Id tell em to F*** right off lol.
Same. It's my life..not theirs..

[manutd 4 ever]

hate this type of shit, ppl can choose for themselves.

[zena]

hate this type of shit, ppl can choose for themselves.
yeah true true..

[kattylover]

if i was forced to get married at 20, id disown my parents
no one forces me to do anything i dont wana do

id completely hate the idea of it and probably get a divorce and get married when i want to

or jus refuse to do it in the first place

Disowning your parents is too much. I think we have our rights. They can't force us to do something that can ruin our future and lifetime happiness. If you think you are not ready for it. Then tell them nicely.

[pressure]

well thats how i feel
i mean if i refused to do it and my parents hated me for it, id disown them
it is my life and i will do what i wanted with it

[kattylover]

Hmmm...okay.

[iloveroddy]

marry in secret hehehehe and they wont know a thing orr pretnd your married already to someone hot then just be sionlge again ..

[bambizzle]

having an arranged marriage would be so shit, takes away all freedom of choice really. and you cant even see if shes fit or not before the wedding

[Cowgirl]

I hate being forced into things i don't want to do. And I would definately hate being forced to marry a guy. I once knew a girl - very sweet and pretty - who was asked out by a guy she really liked. She had to say no because her parents had arranged for her to marry this real spoil brat. I don't think its fair for your parents to pick your furture husband. Its your choice

Cowgirl

[~sexy_biatch~]

i would get married at 20, but not by force.
i'd tell em where to go!

[Shane]

I would not do that at all. Id just tell them they have got their heads or their backsides if they think im going to do something like that.

[bambizzle]

i wouldnt get married at 20, still too young really. youngest id get married is about 23-25

[Mamfy]

I want to get married after university or university courses when I am secure in a job and a house and everything. So definitely over the age of 21. I don't want kids till after I am married and in a safe relationship and job and house and all that

[bambizzle]

i definately want kids one day, i reckon id make a well good dad

[Mamfy]

Aw! :) I'm sure you would!

I want to have two kids, one girl and one boy idealy.

[bambizzle]

that would be nice, sorta like a perfect family. id rather have a boy first, older brother to protect his little sister innit

[Mamfy]

Omg same here! An older brother to look after the younger sister. Like my older brother does for me:) And lol, older brothers mates for the younger girl;) Nah joke lol!

I have always wanted a boy and a girl.

[~sexy_biatch~]

i think i want a boy first.
but cant pick and choose! and tbh if ya could pick i doubt i would.
ive always wanted to be a mum.
i wanna get married when im at least 22 but latest 25- 26

[bambizzle]

i dont think it matters what age you get married if its over 22, as long as you get married

[Mamfy]

Yeah. I want to get married no younger than 21 definitely. Then have kids after the marriage:)

[~sexy_biatch~]

i deffinately will wait till im at least 22 to get married.
maybe get engaged earlier, but upto 21 i think its best to be not married. dont no why lol.
im not bothered about being a mum before a wedding.....your child can be a part of your day then :P