Gays/Lesbians in general

[Arielle]

A lot of gay guys see pulling the straight lad as more of a challenge though and you know that :P

If gay men want straight men to respect their sexuality, then they should try and do the same in return.
Sooo what you're saying is most gay men are sexual predators who think it's better to bum a straight guy than another gay one? I don't believe that, really. And respecting sexuality? ...Homosexuality has been thought of as bad from Biblical times, it's you who should respect them.

After all, it takes a lot of courage to come out and say "Yeah, I'm gay."

[Jimbob]

Sooo what you're saying is most gay men are sexual predators who think it's better to bum a straight guy than another gay one? I don't believe that, really. And respecting sexuality? ...Homosexuality has been thought of as bad from Biblical times, it's you who should respect them.

No, not at all, lol, you took what I said and over analyzed it... a lot.

The majority of my friends are gay or lesbian, since I used to work in a gay friendly bar. I've had this discussion with them and my straight friends, often together. Some gay men see pulling the straight guy as more of a challenge and like to do it, its not an assumption lol, I've seen it happen while I've been out with friends (gay and straight) and I've had guys trying to chat me up because they knew I was straight.

A lot of straight people do say stuff along the lines of... Gay people don't bother me, as long as they don't force it upon me. Some people hear this and think its stupid, but its not really. Its the same with religion, gender and a lot of things. If you want people to respect that you're gay, you've got to respect that some people are straight as well and either don't understand or don't want the attention you want to give them.

I have some gay friends who I know that regardless of how drunk or off my face I was, would never try it on with me, simply because they know I'm straight and they respect the fact I'm straight. But then I have some other friends who are gay, and I know that if I get really drunk, they will try something on with me and they have done in the past and I've had to tell them to back off.

Of course, this isn't the case for all gay men and I never said it was. I just know some gay men see the straight guy on the scene as more of a challenge and think its going to make them look good if they can persuade the straight guy to do something with the gay guy.

[Arielle]

^.^ I see. Sorry, xD I haven't slept much yet, so I'm still just gzzzzzzzgh.

[-Luke-]

Wow, 23 people here are gay (Looking at poll)
So many

[Arielle]

But with over 12,000 members that's a pretty small minority ^.^

[-Luke-]

True true

Wasnt there lik some statistic released ages ago about how one in ten men are gay or something similar?

[Arielle]

I think so, yep.

[-Luke-]

Interesting.....

[GemmaJamPot]

Was just out and about in More-scum yesterday and met up with some friends of a friend, and they were lesbians. They were awesome... completely off their tits, lol.

Dont know how that was relevant to the discussion, lol.. but oh well.

X

[Eric]

it's about lesbians so it relates to the topic i'm guessing?
aha

[GemmaJamPot]

It relates to the topic yeah, but it was pretty random lol.

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[tf_arl_90]

It says I posted in this topic but I cba to go back through 11 pages and find my reply.

I don't know how anyone can possibly say how they feel about gays and lesbians "in general." Not all homosexuals are exactly the same. Is it your opinion on the homosexuals you've met? Wouldn't this be different for everyone, and not necessarily reflect a person's view on homosexuality as a whole? Is it the stereotypical gay guy/lesbian chick? We all know how trustworthy stereotypes are....

I guess you could give your opinion on homosexuality, whether you think it's moral, a choice, etc. But that doesn't really seem to be the case with this thread lol

[Eric]

some people just hate the idea of homosexuality in general
i guess some people they meet helps judge what they feel about them
but most of the time people who hate it hate all homosexuals

[Nammy]

I don't care either way since it's none of my business what someone's sexual orientation is.

[TinksX]

I am ok with it, my aunt is a lesbian and i still love her but it was confusing growing up i thought her partner was my aunt from an early age and got confused but when i got older i understood. Now i'm all for love but when they are together and openly touchy feely etc. it does make me slightly uncomfortable because i think that with some homosexuals they feel a need to show theyre love to other people to make a statement and be accepted to me i just feel a bit uncomfortable but there again when i have to watch a guy and a girl make out or other stuff straight in front of me it's a bit like please save it. i don't know i gues im strange i have nothing against them i know many wonderful lesbians and gays but yeah. i will shut up now xxxx

[Eric]

I am ok with it, my aunt is a lesbian and i still love her but it was confusing growing up i thought her partner was my aunt from an early age and got confused but when i got older i understood. Now i'm all for love but when they are together and openly touchy feely etc. it does make me slightly uncomfortable because i think that with some homosexuals they feel a need to show theyre love to other people to make a statement and be accepted to me i just feel a bit uncomfortable but there again when i have to watch a guy and a girl make out or other stuff straight in front of me it's a bit like please save it. i don't know i gues im strange i have nothing against them i know many wonderful lesbians and gays but yeah. i will shut up now xxxx

yea i could see where you're coming from.
like if i'm with a guy and i'm around friends i don't make out right there in front of them all or around other people.
because i guess some people wouldn't understand or feel umcomfortable by the situation, like you perhaps. like it's great to show affection for each other, but i prefer alone time i guess. that's just the expirences i've had, where people are just like you.

[TinksX]

what i wrote makes me sound really bad, im not the kinda person to make out with a guy in front of loads of people because of some of the relationships i've been in where they didnt want people to see me as their girlfriend so i kinda got public affection as something i shouldnt do. I guess it being my aunt aswell not really something you see your aunt do. But nah i'm not gunna stop people making out infront of my whether it be straight or gay it happens. i don't know im weird and probably yeah i don't know.

[Eric]

what i wrote makes me sound really bad
no it doesn't
it makes perfect sense
some people just don't understand the whole point of people being gay so they find it uncomfortable being around when they are making out. not that that's a bad or anything
it's just people react differently.

[TinksX]

no i understand the point of people being gay because thats the people who they love. No one can pick or choose someone they love it's just the way things go i fully accept that. I just find anyone groping in public not really making out like a bit more full on a bit weird i don't mind people kissing holding hands it's just when ANYone like goes way to far some things are best kept indoors or like away from other people to see. I'm fine with my other aunts and their partnes holding and kiss on the lips cheek and hugging each other it's just the way things go but when my aunt full on makes out with her partner i know it's just to prove a point to some family members because she wants to show them that that's her i understand the principle of it but i think she can go about it in other ways thats what im uncomfortable with. I know she loves her partner very much and i think of her as an aunt and she is lovely and we have a good time i am not homophobic. i guess i can't explain myself fully here about this subject and people won't understand.

[Eric]

yea when they take it beyond the normal, small displays of affection it gets to much, hetro or homosexual.
it really depends on the person feeling you have on the subject. I usually don't like to make out heavily or such in public around friends and such, maybe a small kiss on the cheek or a hug or hand holding, but nothing to graphic. Cause i'm pretty sure it'll make any one uncomfortable and awkward, whether it's hetro or homosexual,once again.

[Thesimpleone.]

as has been said above.
whether hetero or homosexual, nobody wants to see too much affection!

[-Luke-]

Sort of impolite really, think about other people in the vicinity, lol.

[Eric]

exactly lol
no one wants to see people having sex with clothes on

[-Luke-]

Or off, lol.
Belive me it happens, *Shudders*

[Eric]

aha
yeaa
def not something i want to think about :|

[Hugo Boss]

I am gay

[-Luke-]

Really?

[black_sheep]

I'm gay too

[-Luke-]

so much love on here, lol.

[black_sheep]

hee, colorful people! x)

[MagicalJamie]

Gays/Lesbians in general aren't an issue to me. I don't see the need for society to differentiate them, it should just be one of those things.

I look forward to the day where there's no gay pride parades, not out of homophobia, that'll be the day where homosexuality is just so NOT an issue there'll be no need for it to be paraded about, it'll just be part of society, some are, some aren't, no bells and whistles attached.

[black_sheep]

I agree with you. It shouldn't be an issue at all.


Isn't it really stupid when gay people are being racists against straight people?

[conor]

Umm, racism is discrimination based on where you're from.. your race, black_sheep.
I think you mean they're being discriminative towards straight people.
Err, yes I agree with what you said though :P

[n0iZe]

I like lesbians. :3

[-Luke-]

Most straight guys do, lol.

[VraiCanon]

I love teh gays

[Shane]

I love teh gays
You'd be gay if you were a guy. :P haha



My GF is Bi. It's alright, doesn't really make any difference to me. Well, as long as they keep their junk away from my trunk.

[Wandering Soul]

i really don't care. im straight. but that doesnt mean i wont go into a gay bar with some of my friends and sit at the bar and get free drinks. guys... if your even slightly good looking and ya wanna beer. go to a gay bar and sit at the bar and look bored. you finally understand how a chick feels. ha ha ha. just remember to tell them that your straight.

[Wandering Soul]

You'd be gay if you were a guy. :P haha



My GF is Bi. It's alright, doesn't really make any difference to me. Well, as long as they keep their junk away from my trunk.

whoa whoa. i know you wouldnt turn down a 3-some with your girl and one of her hot friends (...if she has any... hot friends that is.)

[Thesimpleone.]

Im a dirty gayer, and i'm so glad of it in all fairness. :D

[-Luke-]

i really don't care. im straight. but that doesnt mean i wont go into a gay bar with some of my friends and sit at the bar and get free drinks. guys... if your even slightly good looking and ya wanna beer. go to a gay bar and sit at the bar and look bored. you finally understand how a chick feels. ha ha ha. just remember to tell them that your straight.

There's a LGBT night in town every year and i always get free drinks off men, lol.

[Wandering Soul]

ha see im not the only one