How do you tell him???

[skyeturtle]

I really like this boy at my school, and i've liked him for a long time and i want to tell him that i like him but i don't know how to tell him w/out sounding desperate.
i also don't want to scare him off because he's also one of my friends.

[sexyvamp16]

get him to notice you more make him make the first move

[chocolatepocky]

My first confession was when he told my friend he 'fancied' me and I told him I liked him back on MSN but we didn't do anything about it.

My second confession was also over MSN.. but I can't remember how I did it.

And my third [yep, also MSN :P] was making me very confused so my nic and personal msg were full of phrases about heartbreak and love. This boy was also my friend so he was asking me stuff and trying to help and in the end he worked out it was himself but he didn't say that until after I confessed =.=" But I simply told him, that I was finally going to reveal the identity of the boy who'd I'd fallen for over the last few days. And then I just straight out said "It was you."

[Lady_La]

Perhaps, instead of sating "I like you, you know, LIKE you" or something, you should just ask him if he wants to have a coffee with you or something (go with a bunch of friends if you feel nervous) and try and go out with him in a kind of "personal" or intimate way. Don't make it an official date, but if you ask him a couple of times he'll get the idea that you like him.

[Leon]

Perhaps, instead of sating "I like you, you know, LIKE you" or something, you should just ask him if he wants to have a coffee with you or something (go with a bunch of friends if you feel nervous) and try and go out with him in a kind of "personal" or intimate way. Don't make it an official date, but if you ask him a couple of times he'll get the idea that you like him.I agree

Ask him if he wants to do something at the weekend and to bring a friends so he doesn't feel pressured into thinking it's like a date, then just try talking to him more and you should have a good time.
And yes if you do ask him a couple of times then he will start to think that you like him:)

[Kerry]

Why don't you get a bit more closer but not to close to scare him just really friendly and see if you can pluck up the courage to ask him out after a week or so :P .

[skyeturtle]

the thing is, is that i've been really good friends with him since last year, it's just that when it comes to boys, i chicken out unless he says something first...

[((_brittany_))]

well i know how you feel man i have the biggest crush on this boy named troy man he looks like a model.. man everytime i get a round him i get mad butterflies in my stomach... but one day i went up to him and started taking ... then we hit off from there. ... now we hang out as "friends" but who knows maybe one day it will be something more then that... but i always recommend to take it slow....

[skyeturtle]

The thing is, is that he doesn't even know that i like him even though i'm giving him all of these hints...

[Leon]

Did you do what i said?
ask him out as friends to go out somewhere

[skyeturtle]

i haven't seen him lately because my school is on vacation... it just might work though, i'm planning on trying ok?

[Leon]

Ok, see how it goes, even if nothing happens, you should still enjoy it as friends and get to know each other better, this will only help for the long term and the next time you go out

[skyeturtle]

yep sounds like a plan

[Wandering Soul]

Well my suggestion is to one day go up to him and put your arm around his back and walk with him. that or while your walking in a school hallway walk close to him and have your hand slightly touch his... look at his expression. then later talk about it and see where it goes.