RUMOURS-Do you think people can change?

[shy_giirl]

So ive been feelin this boy for bout a month right,and he claimz he was feelin me too And we talked on the phone and ish and hes a Sweet boy(Drei) but theirs somethin dodgy bout him and i was weary of it, n kinda backed down until i found out more info. Ok so Me and Drei havent talked in over week i did call him den i decided id not talk to him for a while.Anyway My gurl tina knowz him, coz i know where he livez,& she livez on the same street i was lyk do u kno drei and she described him n i was lyk yea dats him.My gurl was like " u better not be datin him i swear dnt do dat to urself" so i was like wtf u talkin bout, naw i aint datin him i just wanted to know if u new him.
.She told me all dis ish bout Drei sleepin wit alot girls and stuff, he basically a male whore.I kno ppl say dnt believe everythin u hear but i trust my girl n she wudnt lie to me + she sees him alot n must know how he iz. i want to tell him straight that if its about sex he can go about his buisness,and that i respect myself and i aint giving no boy anything hes got to respect me? ...SO DO U THINK PEOPLE CAN CHANGE?WELL DO U THINK DREI CAN CHANGE? I DO really like him but i aint gonna get rapped up in his game u kno?

[Bob!]

Bloody hell, ANOTHER guy? lol.

And Some people can change yeah, but id say itd take a few years or so lol, id try and get the full truth if I was you.

[bambizzle]

i think some people can change, but only the ones who really put their mind to it. its too easy to say your gonna change, actually changings the hard bit. and whether you would actually change to suit someones needs is another thing

[pressure]

i think ppl HOPE others can change and hope is all we've really got to go on
i would ask him and talk to him about all this first before you decide anything
i would also trust my instincts

[~sexy_biatch~]

From experience, people say people dont change. But i think they change...with me personally they do anyway.
If they really like you they will.
I will give you my example:
I know this lad like from year 8, and hes like really layed back, gets into a bit of trouble sometimes. the usual.
i spoke to him a few times, hes okay with me now.
he still gets into trouble but not as much, but hes really protective towards his mates, me being one of them. And if he was doing something wrong, if any of his close mates are there who help him or listen, he stops.
This might not sound like the samething....but it is...kinda.
What im trying to say is if they really want something, they will give up all the bad stuff for something better.
DONT get hurt, be careful, but im sure you will be fine

[shy_giirl]

Bloody hell, ANOTHER guy? lol.

And Some people can change yeah, but id say itd take a few years or so lol, id try and get the full truth if I was you.

Oh no same guy, But its a completely different subject thats why i seperated it.How do i find out the truth though? I cant go up to him and ask him if hes a male whore lol.

i think some people can change, but only the ones who really put their mind to it. its too easy to say your gonna change, actually changings the hard bit. and whether you would actually change to suit someones needs is another thing

That's true.

i think ppl HOPE others can change and hope is all we've really got to go on
i would ask him and talk to him about all this first before you decide anything
i would also trust my instincts

Thanks.

[Mamfy]

I think you need to sit him down and tell him what you have heard and find out if it is actually true. You can't go on worrying about something you don't know all the facts about. The best thing to do is to confront him, get eveyrthing off your chest and then maybe you will find out what is going wrong. You can't just base your opinion on someone by what your friends tell you, you need to see it and witness it for yourself.