14 & 1/2 yr old - 24 yr old

**revoman** · October 28th '05

hi,im 15 and i reaaaallly like me neighbor alot.She is 24...what could i do to hint that i like her without actually sayin it??

Jessicar · October 28th '05

Well, making her feel special is a way to show her you like her. But the thing is, a relationship between a 24 year old woman and a 15 year old is not going to end up well. At 24, people tend to be ready to get married, and expand their career. A 15 year old is still in high school. If you tell her you like her in some way or another, even if its not directly saying it, there is a huge chance you are going to be faced with rejection. You are 9 years younger than her. most girls wont go with someone younger than them, and even if they do, they probably wouldnt go for someone 9 years younger than them. This is because of maturity. Girls mature a lot faster than boys, thats why most boys go with a girl younger than them, because then they are at the same level of maturity.
But, if you think about it, when you were born, she was 9. when you were still wandering around your house with a dummy in your mouth, she was starting high school. If you had just started high school, would you even dream of going with a toddler? Well thats kinda what it would be like with her. Even though age gaps arent as important as you get older, that tends to be when you are both under 20. Even though that seems weird, if someone 15 went out with someone 24, it would be seen as more wrong than if someone of 20 went out with a 29 year old. Thats because you are still growing up though.
I hope that made sense to you.
But anyway. To the original point. There is no easy way of telling someone you like them without saying it. Just treat her well. Talk to her if you ever see her anywhere, and i dont mean go round to her house knocking on her door every 5 minutes. Maybe get her cards for holidays such as christmas, and even maybe a small gift! But these may not get the right message out to her. But it perhaps would be worth a try. Just think about what i said about the age gap thing though, yeah?

Im not being nasty or patronising or anything, thats just how a lot of people see it.

**revoman** · October 28th '05

Jessicar wrote:

Well, making her feel special is a way to show her you like her. But the thing is, a relationship between a 24 year old woman and a 15 year old is not going to end up well. At 24, people tend to be ready to get married, and expand their career. A 15 year old is still in high school. If you tell her you like her in some way or another, even if its not directly saying it, there is a huge chance you are going to be faced with rejection. You are 9 years younger than her. most girls wont go with someone younger than them, and even if they do, they probably wouldnt go for someone 9 years younger than them. This is because of maturity. Girls mature a lot faster than boys, thats why most boys go with a girl younger than them, because then they are at the same level of maturity.
But, if you think about it, when you were born, she was 9. when you were still wandering around your house with a dummy in your mouth, she was starting high school. If you had just started high school, would you even dream of going with a toddler? Well thats kinda what it would be like with her. Even though age gaps arent as important as you get older, that tends to be when you are both under 20. Even though that seems weird, if someone 15 went out with someone 24, it would be seen as more wrong than if someone of 20 went out with a 29 year old. Thats because you are still growing up though.
I hope that made sense to you.
But anyway. To the original point. There is no easy way of telling someone you like them without saying it. Just treat her well. Talk to her if you ever see her anywhere, and i dont mean go round to her house knocking on her door every 5 minutes. Maybe get her cards for holidays such as christmas, and even maybe a small gift! But these may not get the right message out to her. But it perhaps would be worth a try. Just think about what i said about the age gap thing though, yeah?

Im not being nasty or patronising or anything, thats just how a lot of people see it.

She is already married.her husband is 32,thats 8 years difference..they have been fightin lately and she been pissed at him.

**eam.** · October 28th '05

jesus, that would make it even worse if you did, lol

Mamfy · October 28th '05

Seriously, not meaning to sound harsh, but this sounds like something you shouldn't get involved in. Yeah, she might need comfort at this time when she is going through rows with her husband but you can't jump right in there. She has commitments, and she has settled down. You can be there for her when things get worse but I think you have to try and hide your true feelings for her because, as you said, she is married. There is no point in trying to split them two up or anything. Like Jess said, she is 9 years older than you, and therefore has a different outlook on life than what you might be having.

In my opinion, I think it is best just to stay friends with her. It doesn't seem to me like there is anywhere you could get her. Sorry pal.

Jessicar · October 28th '05

Yeah, its dodgy being in this situation. Just try to find someone your own age. There wont be any way you two can be together and not have any problems.

**revoman** · October 28th '05

i just want her to know that i really like her.how do i let her know without sayin it?

Mamfy · October 28th '05

Don't you think she would feel a bit awkward knowing you like her?

**Sponge'K'nob** · October 29th '05

Is she married?

**Mikhael** · October 29th '05

yeah hes said that

**iloveroddy** · October 29th '05

im sorry btu i dont think it will work there is to big a age gap and plus she will be wntin the sex and you cant legally yet and it would fuck her reputation up as well and i dont think you want that do you ????

**Haunting_Echoes** · October 29th '05

On the whole she will be wanting sex thing, I'd like to state the fact that it is not strictly speaking true. I mean, not every woman has an insatiable desire for sex. I know for a fact that both myself and my fiance are still virgins, granted we are not twenty three, but we are both waiting untill we are married to have sex, and would wait untill any age to do so. Many people are in twenty and above before they have sex.... So that seems to me to be a bit of a narrow minded thing to post. It's possible she would want sex, but it's equally possible that she wouldn't.

***Jess*** · October 29th '05

I doubt she would want sex to be honest. Women tend to be more...sensible in such department. They wouldnt want a younger person to have sex with them. But also, they wouldnt want a person so much younger than them for this reason. It causes too many problems.

**Haunting_Echoes** · October 29th '05

Exactly, males sometimes have the same sense within them. It depends on the person of course. But the point still stands, I think she would probably know better than to want sex with someone so far underage.

**revoman** · October 30th '05

iloveroddy wrote:

im sorry btu i dont think it will work there is to big a age gap and plus she will be wntin the sex and you cant legally yet and it would fuck her reputation up as well and i dont think you want that do you ????

how would it fuck her reputation up?If she is wantin the sex,ill give it to her.even though im not legal
STILL noone answered my question.how do i let her know i like her within saying it?

***Jess*** · November 1st '05

I answered your question!

**D3c3p7ioN** · November 7th '05

revoman wrote:

hi,im 15 and i reaaaallly like me neighbor alot.She is 24...what could i do to hint that i like her without actually sayin it??

Go to sleep and think about other stuff.

**Shane** · November 7th '05

Whoa man, just leave it. You are way better off keeping out of her life. What is she, your mums mate?

**BleedBlack** · November 8th '05

revoman wrote:

STILL noone answered my question.how do i let her know i like her within saying it?

you don't buddy. to be honest i really don't think she would care. that may sound harsh but no 24 year old is going to be flattered when a 15 year old is trying to let her know he likes her.

**Bob!** · November 8th '05

Specially when hes only after a bang lol.

She's prob got other guys lined up to do that wish, so unless she's got a younger bloke fettish, I dont think itd work.