long distance relationships

**Lorretta** · November 4th '05

Im goin away to uni in sept, n leaving my bf in Bradford. Can it work between us still n how shud i go bout makin it work. Pls help.

**manutd 4 ever** · November 4th '05

of course it can work, you will be staying at campus etc, he can come down and spend the day/night wiv ya, maybe not seeing each other for a few days will make the relationship stronger?...

**Brianna.** · November 4th '05

Me and my exboyfriend held a long distance relationship for about 3 months...and that was 2000 miles apart.

It depends on your dedication to your significant other. If YOU feel the relationship is worth it, then you'll find a way to work it out.

**Mamfy** · November 4th '05

Of course it can work! If you love and care for him enough then you'll make it work. Both my cousins have boyfriends who live miles away and they're at uni, they still manage to see each other, and they don't love each other any less because of it.

***Jess*** · November 5th '05

As long as you both want it to work, it will work. You can make it work between you. Try and talk a lot, whether its by the phone or the internet or whatever! you dont need to spend a LOT of time together to have a sucessful relationship. It could make it stronger between you. Visit each other as often as you can, and it should work out.

**Sponge'K'nob** · November 6th '05

yes it will work, if you want it to.
As long as yout both trust eachother, and dedicate most weekends and half terms to eachother then you should be fine.
Maybe you could meet up like half way between where you live and where he does...like any near train stations? and then maybe stay in a hotel half way.
You need to think if you want it to work, and if you want it so much it will work.

**NATAL!E** · November 6th '05

Like any other relationship, you just have to work at it to make sure it works. If you want it to work, then it will. Just make sure you keep in contact and see eachother regularly/as often as you can and it'll be fine.

**~*~emolover~*~** · November 6th '05

i think that long distance relationships can work out, it just depends if u can trust eachother as ur off to uni and most students just like to have fun, you could always come bk for the weekends and holidays so i suppose it wouldnt be that bad

**Shane** · November 6th '05

Course it can work, all you have to do is want it to work and be strong.

**Bob!** · November 7th '05

Dedication.

**SG's lil babe** · November 17th '05

I met someone over the internet and we had a 9 month relationship. We got on really well and we ended it, not because of the distance but we both agreed we weren't right for each other.