Advice on love and relationships

**Sponge'K'nob** · November 26th '05

Why not ask anything you need to know?
Im sure a lot of people are here to help and give advice.
Everyone has their own point of view and way around things.
You might find the answer you want!!

**So Smithy** · March 24th '06

ok i got a problem i fancy someone but havent had a girl freind ever and i thnk she fances me what should i do

**Silver_Bullet** · March 31st '06

Man, I have had my share of turn downs, they arent as bad a some think, so ask her out. How old are you and she? I mean its obvious that maybe you should ask, but its my opinion. I used to be very shy around girls but as time progressed and I asked more and more out I became comfortable with the idea of "Girls." Best of luck!

**Mikhael** · March 31st '06

ok dude simple ( my guidelines... )

1) talk to her and dont try it on
2) i No the feeling of being alone and wanting some one so try and get closer to her example, eat lunch with her, give her help in scool etc.
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4) go in for the kill , not really but ask her out when you are confident you no her enough

3) If you still arnt confident enough she'll say yes ...
- try and get her phone number and text her every now and again
- if you get her number phone her with the excuse of asking what homework you have
- Try and get her Yahoo, msn etc. Id, and talk to her on that
ill add more if i can think of any

Tips

1) you really have to be confident , by doining this she will respect you and want to be with her more.
2) tease her slightly not so much but if she does any thing stupid tease her slightly.
3) if she hits you and laughs your in :naughty:
4) by yourself , try not to lie as it might turn bad

ps Dude

its best not to mention u are on Runescape to her it is slightly nerdy . :hump:
Ching

**michelle** · April 11th '06

theres a las that i like but i dont know if he likes me ive know him for a while weve tlked n stuff
what should i do
hes older than me- im 16 hes 17

**michelle** · April 12th '06

i ment theres a lad lol

**Fairy** · April 30th '06

I dont have a boy friend.It totally sucks!All the hot dudes go out with skanks and plastics(mean girls[the movie])I'm sorta preety and s***.I am evil.I hit guys if they piss me off.How can i get one???

**Odd_Girl_Out** · May 6th '06

well to start off im 16 and still boyfriendless... but the problem with me is that i dont fall for just anyone... it takes a lot for me to truly like a guy... and when i do like a guy i like them for a long time... i like this kid that goes to my church and hes also 16... and ive always had a little thing for him... but in december i really started to like him... and hes just got a totally awesome personality and hes mature... so i got his screen name finally... and we started talking online about a few months ago... and about a few days ago i told him i liked him... and he was just like wow... and was like im really sorry but i dont feel the same way about you... but you truly are an awesome person... i havent talked to him since i told him i liked him... because i feel as if its going to be awkward... and ill be seeing him in a few weeks when i go to my cousins house... and i want to try to act normal... but i dont think ill be able to

basically... i really wish he would just like me... but theres really no way for that to happen... now is there?

**Wen1992** · May 8th '06

I suck at that stuff, and i mean really suck. I have never gotten a date before even though i'm like the second coolest guy in school. My pal thinks that i really really need a girl friends because i've bugging her and her buddies a little bit too much lately. The thing she doesn't know is that the gal i have crush on is her buddie( that's why i hanging around them) But the gal hates me, i mean she talk to me and all but for some reason i think she hates me and my friends excpet the one who is friend with her already. She thinks i'm going out with my pal but i'm really not we are just best friends since 6th grade and we do almost everything together. How can i get her to like, i mean all her buddies like me so i tried to get close to her buddies and then get close to her but that didn't work! Now, i heard rumors that she has a crush on one of my friends!!! I think i'm going to die, what's wrong with me?????? Why doesn't she like me!!!!!!

**Hevz** · May 13th '06

it's like tht sumtimes, sumtimes u like sum1 bt they dn't like u bk and it sucks and it hurts aswell bt u will eventually move on! and find sum1 tht u like and who likes u jst as much bk!

**iaxa** · May 27th '06

Fairy wrote:

I dont have a boy friend.It totally sucks!All the hot dudes go out with skanks and plastics(mean girls[the movie])I'm sorta preety and s***.I am evil.I hit guys if they piss me off.How can i get one???

simple dont hit them they wont be afraid to talk to you.

also lol at the runescape comment!

Guest · June 9th '06

ok i have a boyfriend and i am totally in love with him, but i have girl urges sometimes. wats up :S

**Tams** · June 10th '06

Yeah, definetly don't go on about computer games, especially RuneScape, if you play Runescape it just shows you're seriously addicted to your computer. Not good!

**Dani_x** · July 12th '06

my parents dnt lyk me avin a bf...spesh wen es olda den me! av bin wi ma current bf 6months nw n es 20, buh my parents dun no cos i no they will flip even tho theres a big age gap between dem they tel me not 2use them as a example wen i try tlkin 2them. its reali gettin me dwn cos i av 2b al secretive bwt sum1 a luv. ny advice n wat a cn do 2get ma parents let me go out wi who i wnt? x

**Brianna.** · July 12th '06

ahh...please lay off the txt talk a little. It makes your posts harder to read.

**Dani_x** · July 12th '06

sorry i cant help it, its just habbit x

**4ngel** · July 16th '06

i just hate faceing the pants of a girl and (means basicly she is 1 fit momma) not knowing if she fells the same, and u cant realy say anything because u dont wont to look like a prat altho if u dont u might never know if she loves u, and i am just stuck, the last time i saw he was when i glansed round and saw her and some of her friends looking in my direction and whispering, which is sending me mixed messages, does she like me does she not.

can any1 help me plzzzzzzzzz

**CraigYohn!** · July 16th '06

xdannix16 wrote:

my parents dnt lyk me avin a bf...spesh wen es olda den me! av bin wi ma current bf 6months nw n es 20, buh my parents dun no cos i no they will flip even tho theres a big age gap between dem they tel me not 2use them as a example wen i try tlkin 2them. its reali gettin me dwn cos i av 2b al secretive bwt sum1 a luv. ny advice n wat a cn do 2get ma parents let me go out wi who i wnt? x

Try getting him to come round to yours, let him gain your parents trust, hang out with him etc, then break it to them slowly, if it doesnt work, just go back to being secretive lol, but DONT tell them you're going out with him, just say you really like him an see what your parents say.

**Dani_x** · July 16th '06

yeh we've spoke about doing that but my parents wouldnt believe it if i said we just m8s...even if im out with my m8s and 1of their bf's r there and im seen i still get quized about them being my bf! and when ever i have took lads(mates) home, my parents totly embarresd me by warning them of me and saying stuff. they are WAY 2over protective on me!

**CraigYohn!** · July 16th '06

hmmm, I guess keeping him a secret would have to do, they'll grow out of it, no one can stay protective like that no matter who they are, unless, you're in jail, then I guess stuff doesnt change lol