I hate my family life

**Deanox** · December 20th '05

My mum met Dean, they had two kids Me and my sister. when i was 1 years old they split up. My mum then met a guy called Peter, they had my brother, gage.

I never knew about Dean until my mum and my Dad (Peter... I call him dad) told me when i was 11. From that day on my life went pear shape. My dad had fallen out with my sister big time (so bad that she scribbled his face out all the pictures in the house and used 'You are not my real dad' as an argument..). That slowly drove my mum and dad apart.

My sister then said 'I want to meet my real dad'..... Well, she went to see him, they really hit off and got along well! Of course this upset dad and me. Dean kept telling my sister to tell me that i can come around anytime. I refused..

My mum and dad split up in the end and my dad found out that my mum and was cheating with Dean.

My mum has moved in with Dean and my sister lives them, I live with my Dad and my brother. My mum forced me to meet Dean, which was evil! she told me we was going to my grans but she took me to his house! and they was kissing and everything. It really upset me, I was not ready for it...

eversince my mum has treated me different to my sister. (Because my sister agrees with what she has done) and she moans, nags, shouts, and tells me to do everything...

My mum is engaged with Dean and currently going through divorce with my dad.

And this just topped everything off! my dad is going to start seeing my mums cousin!!

Some of that ^^ Happened within the last 6 months.... and Ive fallen out with my mum and my sister AND Dean! all just in time for christmas... My closes Aunt has moved to Ireland and my Grandma is a Alcoholic.... My life is F*** up

**Sponge'K'nob** · December 20th '05

aww bless!
how old is your sister can i ask? she older than you?
your life sounds complicated, do you still get on with your dad and your bro?

**Hugga-Bear** · December 21st '05

damn nd i thought my life was bad...

**Deanox** · December 22nd '05

She is 15, I'm 14.... I do get on with my Dad and brother. but we argue alot

**Bob!** · December 22nd '05

Hmm that does seem pretty fked :/

Id say just go down the path u thinks best for ya. U seem to like ya dad (not yer blood one) more so, stick wi that one I guess if thats what ya feel most happywith.

Sure still talk to ya mum an sis and that side of the family if ya can keep up peaceful negotiations, but if not then just ignore em an get on with yer own life in the best place for ya. If ya want to try ya best at sortin things out then jus make it known that ya dont agree wi what theyre doin an whats happened, but ur willin to tolerate it as long as they dont rub all the bad off on you.

So yeah id say just go yer own way, as uve got no control over other things happenin, its only thing ya can do.

Hope it turns out ok for ya dude

**Mikhael** · December 22nd '05

i suggest do as your " heart " wants i.e do what u want as bobert said if u like Ur " dad " and ur bro then stay with them , if your mum tells you to do stuff that your sis hasn't got to do then shout at her . As u are 14 (like me ) u are almost a adult so you shood get respected . TRuefully ur sister sounds like a 2 faced bitch ( sorry if u like her ) so fck her ( not literally ) ...

EDITED : cos i canny spell

**Deanox** · December 22nd '05

My sister is a two faced bitch, I cannot stay in a room with her for 5 minutes without fighting!
She dont go to school, she smokes, she shags about and she don't care about anything. Because i go to school and i don't ruin my life with smoking and unhealthly relationships, she uses it for an arguement!
My sisters comments-

'What do you know, you geek'

'Why don't you just drop dead'

'I hate you'

'Why don't you just go home'

'When are you going home? I hope its soon'

'Dean is your real father and you need to accept it, you are too far up your dads ass to see that'

'you need to get a grip'

'Shut the fuck up, I have an headache' (She always has headaches lol)

and many more,

By the way to clear things up, My name is Dean and my real father is called Dean. People often call me Little Dean and him Big Dean (Which i'm sick of lol)

**Bob!** · December 23rd '05

Better than being called Lil D I suppose

And tbh, if ya sisters bein like that then jus fookin ignore owt she says lol, sounds a classical slapper to me (no offence on ya family), maybe shes havin to deal with it all 2 but theres still no reason to be like that.

Just follow ya own path dude, dont get pulled into the bad one an ull be ok.

**Pearson** · December 23rd '05

Youv gotta stop taking your family members for granted, ok, were all human and fall out occasionaly, but you should meet Dean and have a propper chat with him. Its not his fault what happend, you cant be mad at him for who he loves and what happend. I suggest meeting Dean and if you really dont like him, fine, carry on. But try and be friendly to him, do not go into the conversation holding a grudge, go in with an open mind. Your Sister and Mum will be mad with you because they care about you, and they disagree with you, and cant understand why. The only way your going to get around this mess is with talking with everyone who is involved until it is sorted.

**Sponge'K'nob** · December 23rd '05

i agree with pearson!!

**timswfc** · December 23rd '05

just fink about it this way...u can have 2 dads

....double presents!

**Mikhael** · December 24th '05

~sexy_biatch~ wrote:

i agree with pearson!!

LIkewise

**Deanox** · December 24th '05

Ive already met Dean, I have to see my mum every weekend and he's there...

**Pearson** · December 24th '05

try talking to him son, have a decent convosation with him. He'l probably no more about you than you think. I wunt no what to do about your sister, seems a bit volatile, but just try and be pleasant you cant do more than that

**Richiecroft** · December 24th '05

Dean.. i Know your going through a hard time at the moment but, if you don't mind me asking..has your family had any emotional problems at all i.e a relative pass away or such, as this can cause big outrage in a family, maybe it was someone on your mothers side (please im only just asking ok, im curious as to how you are in your family! and at what level).?