What does it mean?

**pressure** · January 12th '06

what does it mean when ur bf is ignoring all ur texts, e-mails and phonecalls

theres more to this but i jus wana see what u lot think just from the initial thing thats happening??

**Mikhael** · January 13th '06

He might trying to dump u or is about to , he may be having problems , he might be cheating , he might have a broken fone i dont really no

**pressure** · January 15th '06

he doesnt have a broken fone, i know that for a fact !!!!

i asked him if he was gona dump me and he said no, what am i ment to think ??
cheating.......i hope not
him having problems............maybe but isnt that what being together is a part of, sharing problems and helping eachotehr through them
i mena i need him right now with whats oging on in my life but i wnt tell him until hes ok with me, or he'll think im only telling him to make him feel sorry for me

im in a predicament..........all i can really do is wait and see what happens but in the mena time iv got loads of other shit to deal with

***Jess*** · January 16th '06

If there is a problem, you could be asking awkward questions he may be too upset or flustered to answer. such as "how are you" "do you want to go somewhere?" "why are you ignoring me?" and such, he may not want to share his problem yet.
and if he said he wasnt going to dump you, there is some reason he isnt answering.

**pressure** · January 16th '06

i spoke to him friday and he just dnt wana talk to me

so whatever, iv got other stuff to deal with and i dont need more form him, so im leaving it til he wnats to talk

i doubt there is any problems with him, hes just ignoring me

**OMGLIFESUX+1** · January 20th '06

I think it is his not too subtle way of telling you to fuck off and to stop calling him. How goddamn stupid are you to continually call him. He don't want your naggin ass anymore

**Richiecroft** · January 20th '06

Forget ^^ that! Don't listen to 'em!

From what i can see, he is not cheating or blanking you out, he just needs time to himself to clear his mind and sort himself out. The more you ring him or text him then the more he'll ignore you. Fair enough you wana talk to him, but as people have said, he might be going through some rough patches within his family??

Just wait and see..he might give you a surprise!

**NATAL!E** · January 20th '06

The above post seems pretty likely. Maybe he just wants some time to collect himself.

But thing is, this is really unfair on you. If you're supposed to be in a relatiosnhip, one can't just block the other out and expect everything to be fine.

Can you not contact him, let him know you're worried and tell him you're a bit upset and want to talk to him about the situation.?

I mean, being in a relationship with someone means you're there for them. He's not there for you right now, when he should be really. And you need to let him know that if he really does like you as much as he says, then you need him to be there for you.

And I'm sure, being as worried as you are, you'd be happy to 'be there' and help him with any problems he's got right now.

**Bob!** · January 20th '06

OMGLIFESUX+1 wrote:

I think it is his not too subtle way of telling you to f*ck off and to stop calling him. How goddamn stupid are you to continually call him. He don't want your naggin ass anymore

3rd strike dude, you ought to be careful...

**Pearson** · January 20th '06

pressure wrote:

what does it mean when ur bf is ignoring all ur texts, e-mails and phonecalls

theres more to this but i jus wana see what u lot think just from the initial thing thats happening??

LMAO! It means he dunt like you and your getting obsessive, which int exactly a turn on flower.

**Pearson** · January 20th '06

OMGLIFESUX+1 wrote:

I think it is his not too subtle way of telling you to f*ck off and to stop calling him. How goddamn stupid are you to continually call him. He don't want your naggin ass anymore

although I agree with you, you clearly wear a cheap tracksuit.

***Jess*** · January 20th '06

Pearson wrote:

although I agree with you, you clearly wear a cheap tracksuit.

*claps*

well said

**Bob!** · January 20th '06

Rofl, Pearson - 1 Nobber - 0

Anyways lets not start arguments in ere, back to the topics

**Haylee Dawn** · September 16th '09

There are a lot of reasons. His phone may be broken...He may be cheating...He may not like you. It's common sense. Just think about the situation.

**Thok** · September 16th '09

i think if he is still ignoring your calls now (after 3+ years) its probably over between you two...

**ALLiE_yadigg** · September 16th '09

I think it's time for you to think about the relationship a little harder. If he's ignoring you, that clearly means he doesn't want to talk to you. Whether that means he's cheating or even that he's having problems, he's not honoring his commitment to the relationship and maybe you're better off. My suggestion is wait it out. But while you're waiting, stop calling/texting him and move on with your life. As long as he's taking "me time" maybe you should be too. Take this as a new start. Keep your head up and try not to worry about him. I know it's hard but keep yourself busy. It'll be better in the end.