Fate, luck or soul mates?

**Boy_Wonder06** · January 28th '06

This debate is open for the discussion of mainly life being a bitch and messing up your life. Do you believe that everyone has a sole mate?

Discuss away:

**Bob!** · January 28th '06

LoL, I wish

I'd say its basically just fate and luck.

**Boy_Wonder06** · January 28th '06

i agree to be honest, mind u to a certain extent i believe there is always some one out there for everyone but im not sure if thats cause people to say it to you inorder to make you feel better lol...

**Brianna.** · January 28th '06

I don't believe in soul mates.

I think, eventually, we just settle. It's a depressing thought, but I think it's true. We get tired of the search for the perfect person, so we all lower our standards a little in order to achieve just a little bit of happyness.

**-Snake-** · January 28th '06

Karma.... Thats it!

**Pearson** · January 28th '06

Emo.Eyes wrote:

I don't believe in soul mates.

I think, eventually, we just settle. It's a depressing thought, but I think it's true. We get tired of the search for the perfect person, so we all lower our standards a little in order to achieve just a little bit of happyness.

True, Theres no chance of you fiding your perfect person, and even if you did whats the chance they'd like you. You find someone whos oreyt and enjoy it. Nobodys perfect anyway....

**-Snake-** · January 28th '06

Pearson wrote:

True, Theres no chance of you fiding your perfect person, and even if you did whats the chance they'd like you. You find someone whos oreyt and enjoy it. Nobodys perfect anyway....

Well said, but how much do ya settle for?

~*aussie_gal~* · January 29th '06

i dont really believe in fate because i dont like the feel that something is controlling my life...i belive in free will i choose to go places and i choose to fall in love. and soul mates i dont think is true... it all depends on the person and when two people are together long enough they belive it was fate but if they didnt meet then they still would have found someone else... its just up to you to do what you want!

**random-lemons** · January 29th '06

There is no such thing as a sole mate, its just luck that you find someone who is nearly perfect for you. There isnt just one person for you, there are loads...you just cant find them all.

**Boy_Wonder06** · January 29th '06

i kinda agree and disagree with you, i mean you got to admit, you can't help your feelings towards someone, thats not for you to do, you can always try and change them but at the end of the day no matter what you will do they will remain. I think sole mates are just people who are very much alike you, it doesnt mean you are meant to be together, it justs means well your so alike you could always try lol.

**-Snake-** · January 29th '06

Soul Mate's dont exsist, and if they do then they are everywhere beacuse no matter how we all put it we all settle. There is something we would rather change or be diffrent.

In life you should have fun and try to be a good person, in the end you will end up with someone!

**jess** · January 30th '06

I Disagree! I think yes there is such thing as soul mates and i believe everyones future is pre-determined, if something happens it was meant to be, if it doesn't it wasn't. If we don't have something or someone to live for, then what is the point? Everything good in life comes in pairs, i believe in life fulfilment when/if we find our other half.

**Pearson** · January 30th '06

Its a nice idea, that somewere out there is our solemate....but I cant really see it happening.

**Riccardo** · January 30th '06

i do believe in soul mates, there is a perfect person out there for everone!
however i do not believe in fate, life is what you make it and nothing is predetermined. If life was like that, what would be the point of doing anything, if you couldn't change it!?

**Pearson** · January 31st '06

Riccardo wrote:

i do believe in soul mates, there is a perfect person out there for everone!
however i do not believe in fate, life is what you make it and nothing is predetermined. If life was like that, what would be the point of doing anything, if you couldn't change it!?

well no, Fates more like your life was ment to happen like this, not if you didnt do owt then your life would still be the same as if you really tried hard in everything you do. Fates like; if you missed the bus and then the bus that you missed crashed and everyone on it was killed. Then you could say its fate that your still alive. not that I belive in fate, Id call it more luck.

**Boy_Wonder06** · January 31st '06

thats actually a very good argument pearson, you may say you dont believe in fate but it depends what you class fate as... and i mean the peopel that were killed in the London Bombs (RIP), a lot of people said they would have normally caught that exact tube that blew up etc, thats fate, isnt it?

**lozzy** · February 4th '06

i believe in luck and fate even though most ov my luck is bad and sux!!!!!

**Sponge'K'nob** · February 5th '06

I believe in soul mates, "usually" theres someone out there for everyone, but i guess you just gotto make it happen, i dont believe in luck or fate, i believe life is what you make it.

**Boy_Wonder06** · February 5th '06

i think that you may find what you believe to be your soul mate but unless they realise it then they will live there life without you. its that simple, i mean there this person i mega like, we've got toones in common, we've pretty much alike lol. but they said no to me for there various reasons which is fare enuff, you can't force someone to love you, but as long as they know how you feel, you never know it may tick sumink in their heads.

Its like what you see in movies, ppl chase after sumone and then the other person dont wanna know, but then they realise.

**Mamfy** · February 5th '06

I think I believe in soul mates but that doesn't necessarily mean that everyone finds their soul mate. Soul mates don't have to be someone of the opposite sex either. Some people have best friends who they class as soul mates, yet they have a partner, it's all about what you think.

I don't believe we go looking for our soul mates, they just happen to be in the same place at the same time, and maybe you don't realise it. Not everyone thihnks they have asoul mate because they haven't yet come into contact with someone who they feel a strong connection with.