I am so confused, can someone help me?!

JAYE · August 17th '05

hiya i really need some good advice cos i am so confused, my head is hurtin frm me thinkin abt this constant prob.
ok to put it across quickly my boyfriend lived in france and me in england wen we first met we were together for a year and he came to england to live with me and my family. he had been there 8 months and along wiv my parents and sister we all decided to go to live in malta this march cos dats where my mum is originaly frm, anyway he asked me to be his fiancè at our leaving party cos we had decided to go and spend 4 months in paris before we leave. we r here now but he has a bit of a spendin habit and has bought a laptop and new fone in our first week and we are ment to be here saving, my parents went crazy at both of us and told me to go bak home which i cudnt do, ive bin wiv him for 2 years and i love him. well now he doesnt want to go to malta because the stuff my parents sed to him hurt him,before this they were great friends. now wot do i do? pls help urgent!!!!!!!!!

Mamfy · August 17th '05

i think you need to have a word with your fiance first, he needs to know that he should not be spending such a great deal of money on things like that when you both know clearly that you were meant to be saving

you also need to have a word with your parents, and tell them that maybe that wasnt the best way to go about the situation, by shouting and saying those things andf that they have hurt him

then, i think you might need to get them both to apologise or something, or just clear the air, your fiance needs to know that your parents didnt mean to say such hurtful things, and your parents also need to know that your fiance didnt mean to do such silly things while you should have been saving, and let them know he is sorry

i hope this all works out for you, i cant say my advice is anything of a help but good luck

JAYE · August 21st '05

thank you for your advice, i just got them together and told them i cant be put in the middle of this situation and it worked, they spoke about everything and it is slowly getting back on track.

thank you