Worry

Wandering Soul · July 16th '05

'sigh' IN about two months my girl (Mage from the old site) is moving to Oregan. ( that on the other side of the country. Im at the ultimate south state and shes going to the ultimate north state) thats about 2200 miles between us. Then a year after that its planned that im going up then. But i dunno if i can make it a year without her. I can barely stand a week without her. I'm afraid of losing her to someone else. but what am i supposed to do. i cant tell her not to go. but a year man. we have plans on keeping in touch and i plan on visiting up there for thanksgiving. but she wont be there for me when i will really need her. All i can think about is that she is going and i wont see her for a year. it haunts my dreams and my daily thoughts. sigh i dunno im afraid. very afraid.

**Shane** · July 16th '05

Keep in touch as much as possible!!

Meet halfway in the holidays and see each other over the webcam!!

Hell, even talk on here in the chatrooms when they are up, you can get your friends invloved too and it will be like an online hangout. Even use msn, make times that you WILL be online, make the time to arrange phonecalls and then work around that time!!

If you love her man then do everything yo can to stay with her and see/talk to her as much as you can!!!

xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx · July 16th '05

My *ex* boyfriend Matt and I went through that. He was in New York, and I moved to Colorado. It's not quite as big as a distance as your's, but it was still a big one.

We talked alot on the phone, and he was actually planning to come out on my birthday. It really didn't seem like there were over 1,000 miles between us. As long as the communication and the trust is there, a year won't be that bad.

We were like that for 6 months, but things got too hard for us to keep the relationship strong. From the sound of it, you're crazy about this girl. Matt and I weren't like that. If we could do it for 6 months, then I have faith that you can hold out longer.

You just gotta trust.

Matty · July 17th '05

thank god for the net bro

i'm sure ull do fine!
good luck with that tho

Wandering Soul · July 17th '05

xXxI.Got.Them.Emo.EyesxXx wrote:

My *ex* boyfriend Matt and I went through that. He was in New York, and I moved to Colorado. It's not quite as big as a distance as your's, but it was still a big one.

We talked alot on the phone, and he was actually planning to come out on my birthday. It really didn't seem like there were over 1,000 miles between us. As long as the communication and the trust is there, a year won't be that bad.

We were like that for 6 months, but things got too hard for us to keep the relationship strong. From the sound of it, you're crazy about this girl. Matt and I weren't like that. If we could do it for 6 months, then I have faith that you can hold out longer.

You just gotta trust.

'sniff' thats the one thing i dont wanna hear. Not to mention its a WHOLE YEAR. sigh i hope you guys are right. (and shane shame on you for your shameless self-promotion.)

Matty · July 17th '05

lol WS. Shane you got told... WS you'll be fine lol. Just take it day by day see how thigns are

Wandering Soul · July 17th '05

yeah but he knows im going to do it anyway

Matty · July 19th '05

ur guna be fine!!!

Mamfy · July 28th '05

yeah, if you love each other as much as you sound like you do then it wont be such a huge problem, if you dont want to lose her then dont let her go! keep in contact with her and do whatever you can to make it work, dont worry, this has happened to me too before but we managed to keep going strong so who says you cant?!

**Shane** · July 28th '05

Matty wrote:

lol WS. Shane you got told... WS you'll be fine lol. Just take it day by day see how thigns are

Hey, anything that works, i want this site to have some use to someone!!

Wandering Soul · July 29th '05

hell comedy, death of boredom, someone to talk to other than my self. yeah seems like a good use to me. dont worry bout that thought we are definatly going to use this site to communicate with each other. As long as shane doesnt restrict my ass on everything again. BTW am i still an Agony Uncle or something like that.

Kos · July 29th '05

She's lucky, Oregon has the largest percentage of nonreligious people in the United States per State. Not that I'm complaining by a 1% difference; I'm just stating that it's a positive thing.

Wandering Soul · July 29th '05

... wow makes me even more impatient to get away from these hypocritical bastards.

JakSmit · July 29th '05

My friend is still wive her boyfriend who has been in another country for a year. She doesn't even know if he will be coming back. Just keep faith and phone like everyday.

sstokes · August 1st '05

If you love her, then do all that you can to stay in contact with her. If teh ties ever break loose you know that ultimately it wouldn't have worked anyway. Keep your eye on what you want. Tell her how you feel about her moving even tho you might be shy/scared. GOod luck! Hope it works out for the best

Wandering Soul · August 1st '05

Well. I got past that part. all we need to do now is sit down and talk about what we are going to do. Cell phone plan has been an idea. HEY SHANE. i recall you doing some advertiseing for Cells. got any idea on a good plan???

sstokes · August 1st '05

Alot of cell phone plans you can talk for free after a certain hour like on my cell phone its free after 8 o'clock pm. Therefore you guys will have the opinion to call everynight when it will cost u nothing to talk for as long as you want untill 6:00 in the monring.